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What sort of things does your counselor have in her office?
What is... Books, games, toys, puppets, playdough, calm down tools, posters, computer, ipad, etc.
What is the job of the school counselor?
What is... to help students solve problems and feel better. To help teach students to solve their own problems and to make sure everyone feels safe and ready to learn.
Is it ok to get angry?
What is... Yes, everyone feels angry sometimes, it is what you DO with your anger that is important.
What are some problems elementary kids might have?
What is.. Arguments with friends, disagreeing about the rules of games, school work being hard, trouble with siblings, bullying, family is getting a divorce, wanting more friends but not sure how to make friends, etc.
What are ways to be a good friend?
What is... Use kind language, be respectful of differences, ask others to play, include everyone, get to know each other, learn a person's name, etc.
If you want to see the school counselor, what do you do?
What is... Fill out a yellow "Let's Talk" note and turn it into the counselor box in the main office. Ask your teacher if it's OK. Find me around school and ask if we can talk.
Is Ms. Kaloper allowed to tell your teachers and friends what you talk about in her office?
What is... No. The only time Ms. Kaloper might talk to someone about what you share is when: 1) Someone is hurting you 2) You want to hurt someone 3) You want to hurt yourself 4) OR if you give me permission
What can you do if you are feeling sad?
What is... Talk to the school counselor, talk with your teacher, go for a walk, write in a journal, take some deep breaths, ask for a hug, talk to a friend, etc.
What is the first step of problem solving?
What is... Do something to feel calm! We can't solve problems unless our brain and body are calm.
It's important to be a good listener to be a good friend. How can we be good listeners to each other?
What is... Eyes on the speaker, friendly body language, smile, listen to what he/she is saying, ask questions to show interest, find ways you can connect your interests together!
What is Ms. Kaloper's dog's name? What kind of dog is he?
What is... Stewart! He is a Boston Terrier.
Name some reasons why you may want to talk to the school counselor.
What is... If there is a death of someone you love, arguments with friends, your family is getting a divorce, you are feeling sad/lonely, being bullied, etc... OR you want to share something cool or new about what is going on in your life! It's great to share good news too :)
What is a sign you might be "flipping your lid"?
What is... Red face, sweaty palms, fast breathing, pumping heart, feeling hot, etc.
What is The Wheel of Choice?
What is... The Wheel of Choice is a problem solving tool that helps students solve problems.
Why is it important to make friends?
What is... Life is more fun with friends! Someone to play with, talk to, share ideas with, and learn from.
What is confidentiality?
What is... Ms. Kaloper's agreement to keep things secret UNLESS someone is hurting you, you want to hurt yourself, or you want to hurt someone else.
If someone is bullying you, should you report to a grownup or keep it a secret? BONUS: What are the 3 Rs?
What is... Report to an adult you trust. Recognize, Report, Refuse!
What other feeling words can you think of? Can you list 10?
What is... Anxious, joyful, desperate, confused, annoyed, bored, irritated, elated, worried, scared, etc.
When having a problem with someone else, what would be some good things to do to start solving it?
What is... Calm down, talk it out, try to see their perspective, use respectful language, work together to find a compromise.
Making friends is easy, True or False?
What is.... False. Making friends can be hard and take practice! The more you practice making friends, the easier it gets!
What are some things that Ms. Kaloper asks you to always report to an adult?
What is... If someone is bullying you. If someone is harassing you. If someone is making fun of you because of your race or gender. If someone is touching you in inappropriate ways. If you do not feel safe at school or at home.
Where is Ms. Kaloper's office?
What is... On the first floor, inside the main office.
If you are feeling upset what are some safe things to do to calm down?
What is... Go for a walk, ask for a break, take deep breaths, use mindfulness techniques, squeeze a ball, draw, meditate, stretch, drink water, talk to a friend, talk to the teacher, talk to the counselor, etc.
Who are helpers in your life if you need help problem solving?
What is... Parents, teachers, school counselor, siblings, friends, grandparents, principal, vice principal, nurse, etc.
If you are having a hard time making friends, what are some things you can do?
What is... Practice asking questions such as, "Want to play?" "Can I play?", "What's your name?" Ask an adult for help. Talk with your teacher or school counselor. Ask your friends if they can introduce you to their friends.