Wild Card
•a special right, advantage, or immunity granted or available only to a particular person or group.
what is privilege?
these stages create the cycle of violence
What is tension, incident, reconciliation, and calm?
Making sure you are being a good role model is a great sign you are succeeding in this area of life.
what is responsible parenting?
Protects personal space and body
what is physical boundaries?
When you make eye contact and actually hear what someone is trying to say to you.
what is active listening?
this previously discussed topic is used often by the abusers to make it difficult if not impossible to leave the relationship
what is isolation?
Recognizing these factors can assist in gaining better control over emotions such as anger or anxiety.
what are triggers?
myth or fact: pretending to have a mental disorder is a mental disorder
fact
The age that domestic violence exposure can start affecting the child.
What is newborn?
the ability to see things from another's perspective and feel their emotions.
what is empathy?
a form of communication that helps take out the need to be defensive
what is i statements
making sure there is mutual agreement on fair distribution of work in home and relationship
what is shared responsibility?
answerability for the outcome of the task or process
what is accountability?
•you verify that you've not only heard, but understand, the message conveyed.
Active listening
•Refusing to admit, believe, or concede that something has happened or is happening
what is denying?
the obligation to perform the task or comply with the rule.
What is Responsibility?
the three things that should be discussed prior to going into a binding relationship (marriage, kids, etc)
what is each persons debt, income and assests
Kind of abuse: When all money is made by, controlled by and handed out by only one person in the relationship.
what is Financial/economic abuse?
the three things children seek often
what is care, love and safety?
These are the critical components of a negotiation.
What is the goal (desired outcome), what are you not willing to bend on (the non negotiables), and how important the relationship is to maintain?
•manipulate (someone) using psychological methods into questioning their own sanity or powers of reasoning.
what is gaslighting
The national mammal of the United states
What is the American bison
the culture style where men have several expectations that women are not held to, starting at a young age
what is the man box culture?
Name the 11 boundaries we have discussed
Physical, Emotional, Verbal, Time, Work, Spiritual, Financial, Sexual, Permeable, Semi Permeable, Rigid
This is a very important aspect of any relationship you could have.
What is communication?