Healthy vs. Unhealthy Relationships/Consent
An ongoing process of discussing boundaries and what you're comfortable with.
What is Consent?
People, places or things that you can count on to be there for you.
What is Support Systems?
Intense, excessive, and persistent worry and fear about everyday situations. Ex. Fast heart rate, rapid breathing, tired, sweating
Constant feeling of sadness and loss of interest, which stops you doing your normal activities.
What is Anxiety and Depression?
Give me two examples of gender stereotypes.
What is "Men don't cry?", "Men are insensitive?", "Women are bad drivers?", "Women are too sensitive?", "All women love shopping and gossiping?" and "All Men love sports?"
Whose nose grew when he told a lie.
What is Pinocchio?
Some typical red flags in an unhealthy relationship, name 3.
What is controlling behavior, keeping you from friends and family, jealousy, not giving you privacy or space, blaming you for their problems, and possesive?
Name at least two people or things that are considered support systems.
What is Family, Friends, Teachers, Trusted adults, Pets, etc?
Includes our emotional, psychological and social well- being.
What is Mental Health?
What are some "typical gender roles" for boys and girls, name at least 2 for each?
Girls: What is cooking, cleaning, sewing, etc.?
Boys: What is playing sports, building things, not crying, being tough?
The place I work and what I do.
What is the Sexual Assault Resource Center (SARC) and Bilingual Education and Outreach Specialist (go out in the community to bring awareness on the education and prevention of sexual assault/violence)?
At least 3 healthy relationship qualities.
What is good communication, honesty, mutual respect, being supportive, equal partnership and respecting boundaries?
Myth or Fact: Having negative people around you does not have any effect on your mental, emotional and physical well-being?
What is a Myth?
Feeling of being overwhelmed or unable to cope with mental or emotional pressure. Can be good or bad.
What is Stress?
Why can gender roles and stereotypes be so harmful?
What is (your own answer, no wrong answer)?
Slogan: "Where Flavor Gets Its Wings"
What is Wingstop?
The main thing that is in an unhealthy relationship that is not in a healthy relationship.
What is Fear/being afraid?
Why is it so important to have support systems?
What is (your own answer, no wrong answer)?
Healthy Coping Skills can include, name 4.
What is exercise, meditate, give/recieve a compliment, relax, listen to music, go to a concert, play sports, draw, paint, build something, etc?
Myth or Fact: As long as a person is not hurting themselves or others and are happy, that is all that should matter.
What is Fact? (Everybody should have the choice to be themselves to the fullest)
Have been victims of physical and/or sexual violence by an intimate partner. Male and/or Female.
What is 1 in 3 Women and 1 in 4 Men.
Name a couple of rights in your relationship.
What is...
- Say "No" if you feel uncomfortable
- participate in activities that do not need to include your partner/significant other
- have your needs be as important as the other person's needs
-grow as an individual in your own way
- make decisions about yourself and have equal decision-making power.
Describe at least 3 ways you can get help when you are in an unhealthy relationship.
What is...
-confide in people you trust
-create a backup safety plan
-trust your gut if something is off
-don't break up in person if you do not feel safe
-get help from professions (counselor or mental health provider)
-communicate your concerns and think of steps to improve relationship
The most important thing you can take care of and have control over.
What is Yourself and taking care of your own body?
How to maintain a positive relationship? (4 things)
What is....
-Boundaries
-Effective Communication
-Emotional Management
-Knowing your rights
Method you can use to effectively communicate in a positive way.
S-Stay Calm
A-Ask Questions to understand
F-Find out partner/friend's feelings
E-Exchange ideas for a possible solution