When we have big feelings or thoughts, and we let ourselves feel them without letting them take over, that’s called this.
Acceptance
These are rules we set to help us feel safe and comfortable with others.
Boundaries
Smiling, eye contact, and how we sit or stand all show this kind of communication without words.
Nonverbal Communication
These thoughts can pop up in our heads really fast when something bad happens, and they aren't always true.
Automatic Negative Thoughts (ANTs)
Feeling happy in your body and your brain means you are taking care of this.
Your wellbeing
When we listen carefully, ask kind questions, and try to understand how someone else feels, we're showing this.
Acquaintance
When you say things like "I hear you" or "That makes sense," you're doing this.
Validating
When we notice our thoughts and ask questions about why we're having them, we're using this.
Curiosity
Drinking water, eating fruits and veggie, and eating with your family are all parts of this.
Healthy Eating
This saying reminds us to imagine how life feels for someone else.
"Walk in their shoes"
When someone doesn't give you space, won't take "no" for an answer, or makes you do too much, it means this.
Saying things like "I feel upset when..." instead of blaming helps you use these.
"I" statements
You can squish your ANTs by doing this.
Challenge your thoughts
Sleep
When you try to understand what someone else is thinking or feeling, that's called this.
Someone who is kind, listens to you, and makes you feel happy is this.
A good friend
Truthful
Asking Helpful Questions
Running, jumping, dancing, and playing with friends are all ways to do this.
Exercise
This word means feeling bad for someone when they're hurt or sad.
Sympathy
Giving people space, sharing, and being fair are examples of this.
Healthy Boundaries
The FAST skill helps you stand up for yourself and keep this.
Self-respect
When you learn from mistakes and believe you can grow, you have this kind of mindset.
Growth Mindset
Your brain makes these "happy" chemicals when you laugh, play, and feel proud.
Dopamine