General
Peacemaker vs.
What is a peace-faker?
A slippery slope
What is conflict?
The 5As
What are Admit, Apologize, Accept, Ask & Alter?
Using body language and words to communicate
What is verbal and non-verbal communication?
Be kind to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ...
What is "forgave you"?
Something that starts in the heart.
What is conflict?
The two ways down the slippery slope
What is escape or attack?
Making a bad choice, playing the blame game, and getting a consequence for both
What is double trouble?
The types of messages to use in conflict
The reference of "So, whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God."
What is 1 Corinthians 10:31?
Two slogans/key principles from Young Peacemaker
What is: "Conflict is a slippery slope", "Conflict starts in the heart", "Choices have consequences", "Wise-way choices are better than my-way choices", "The blame game makes conflict worse", "Conflict is an opportunity", "The 5As can resolve conflict", "Forgiveness is a choice", "It's never too late to do what's right", "Think before you speak", "Respectful communication is more likely to be heard" and "A respectful appeal can prevent conflict"?
Two ways to make choices
What are my-way and wise-way choices?
At least two ways people play the blame game
What is blaming someone, covering up, making excuses, pretending it's not your fault, or lying about what you did?
The plan for altering choices
What is the STAY Plan? (Stop, Think, Act, Yea!)
The text of Proverbs 14:8
What is "The wisdom of the prudent is to discern his way, but the folly of fools is deceiving"?
Mommy's favourite visual/mnemonic device from Young Peacemaker
What is the communication pie? Yummy!
Standing up for what's right & sharing your opinion that's different from others'
Feeling like your problems are always caused by someone else and you're at their mercy
What is playing the victim? (or a victim mentality)
The four pieces of the communication pie
What are respectful words, tone of voice, body language & listening skills?
The memory verses that matched our lesson on What Causes Conflict?
What is James 4:1-2 "What causes quarrels and what causes fights among you? Is it not this, that your passions are at war within you? You desire and do not have, so you murder. You covet and cannot obtain, so you fight and quarrel. You do not have, because you do not ask."
At least two situations when you need to make a respectful appeal
What is when you have new information, when you've made an unwise commitment, when you've been wrongly accused, when you have a personal preference, or when you are concerned for someone?
Deserved for the choices you make (such as trust, a clear conscience, privileges, discipline, loss of trust, or a guilty conscience)
What are consequences?
The four promises of forgiveness
What is good thought, hurt you not, gossip never, friends forever?
An example of a STAR appeal using I messages and a respectful request.
"I feel left out when you take them to the park without me. It's important to me for us to spend time together too. Could we do something together later tonight or maybe this weekend?"
The last memory verse
What is 1 Peter 5:5 "Likewise, you who are younger, be subject to the elders. Clothe yourselves, all of you, with humility toward one another, for “God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.”?