Expected vs Unexpected
Shouting out loud at the library.
Unexpected!
The library is somewhere you should be quiet.
Throwing a pencil at someone!
Unexpected!
Throwing a pencil at someone is not allowed.
You could hurt someone!
Joseph and his mom went to the store, and he wanted to buy something. When his mom told him, "No" he threw the item to the floor and yelled.
He should not have thrown the item or yelled at his mom. That would be unexpected.
John told his sister that he doesn't care about her new shoes. (How would she feel?)
John's sister could feel:
Sad
Angry
Upset
Or many other unhappy emotions
Dan thinks cars are really cool, but Bob told him cars are boring.
How might that make Dan feel?
Dan might feel:
Sad
Angry
Upset
Hurt
Or many other negative feelings...
Running inside the classroom
Unexpected!
Running is expected at the playground! Not the classroom.
Steve stands up on his chair
Unexpected!
Chair are for sitting on, and you might get hurt.
Paul was walking and another man passed him. The man hit Paul's shoulder and didn't apologize.
The man should have said sorry and apologized for hitting Paul!
Ignoring him would be... Unexpected!
Caleb accidentally hits John during a movement break, but he doesn't apologize.
How might John feel?
John might feel...
Sad
Ignored
Angry
And many more negative feelings!
John fell down while playing soccer. His friend Nick helped him up and asked if he's hurt.
How might John feel?
John might feel:
Happy
Cared for
Thankful
Or other positive feelings
Charlie asked his friend to play soccer with him.
His friend ran away without saying anything.
How might Charlie feel?
Charlie might feel:
Sad
Upset
Lonely
Or many other negative feelings!
Carl was told to clean up, so he threw his toys across the room into the basket.
Unexpected!
Carl did clean up, but he should treat others stuff with respect.
Mike's teacher told him that his breaktime is over. Mike ignored her.
Miles should not ignore his teacher!
This is rude/mean and unexpected.
Mrs. Long helped host fun activities for some students.
The students said "Thank you Mrs. Long!"
How might this make Mrs. Long feel?
She might feel:
Appreciated
Happy
"Good"
Or other positive emotions!
Dylan broke the rules, so Tyler told everyone he could find about it.
How might that make Dylan feel?
Dylan might feel:
Sad
Embarrassed
Overwhelmed
...And many other negative feelings!
Caleb and his friends were playing catch.
Caleb threw the ball as hard as he could at his friends face!
This is Unexpected!
Even though they're playing catch, the goal is not to hit his friend in the face!
James answers a question wrong when he is called on, and the class and teacher laugh at him.
Two Correct answers!
James getting a question wrong is OK! It's expected as long as you try your best.
The class and teacher laughing at him is WRONG! It is unexpected to laugh at someone for trying, even if they fail.
Bob's teacher told him to stop playing games on his Ipad, so Bob thew his Ipad on the ground.
Bob did stop playing games, but he should not throw his Ipad.
The teacher said to the class "Today we're going to play Jeopardy. We just have to wait for Mary to put away her Ipad.". Mary ignored her, and went to the next level in her game.
How might Mary's class feel?
Mary's class might feel:
Sad,
Bored,
Angry,
Disappointed
Her class might not get to play Jeopardy!
Marty keeps interrupting a group discussion by shouting out.
How might that make the Group feel?
The group might feel:
Greg kicked his friend while playing soccer!
He told his friend he was sorry and that it was an accident.
Since Greg it was an accident and Greg apologized, this is... Expected!
Bonus: What could make this unexpected?
Kent was playing a video game with his friends when one of them destroyed his stuff!
Kent went to school the next day and hit his friend as payback.
Unexpected!
While Kent's friend shouldn't have destroyed his stuff, he should have talked to someone about it instead of getting his own revenge.
Aiden's friend broke the rules on the playground, so Aiden hit him.
Aiden's friend broke the rules, but we should not hit anyone, even if they do something wrong.
Shaun's friend Bob can't read.
Shaun told Bob: "You're terrible at reading!"
How might that make Bob feel?
Even though what Shaun said might be true, Bob would still feel:
Hurt
Sad
Angry
Or many other negative feelings!
Alice just remembered that two weeks ago, Jennifer called her drawing ugly!
Alice then ignored Jennifer for the rest of the day.
How would that make Jennifer feel?
She might feel:
Confused
Angry
Sad
Or other negative feelings- she doesn't even know why Jennifer ignored her!