Cping Skills
Authority
bad behavior
Good behaviors
Reasonable cnsequences
100

Name one thing you can do to calm down.

Name 4 coping skills


Take slow breaths, count, draw, or take a break 

100

Name an adult you can ask for help at school. 

A teacher, counselor, principal, or another trusted adult. 

100

Is feeling angry a bad choice?

No. Feelings are ok. What you do with them matters.

100

What does taking turns look like?

Letting someone else take a turn while you wait your turn.

100

You spill a drink. What is a reasonable next step?.

Clean it up.

200

Show how to take three slow breaths

Breathe in gently, then breathe out slowly three times.

200

Why do schools have rules

To help everyone stay safe and learn.

200

What could happen if you interrupt someone repeatedly

They may feel unheard, and you may miss what they are saying.

200

Name one way to show someone you are listening.

Pause what you are doing, let them finish, or repeat what you heard.

200

You leave game pieces on the floor. What should happen next?

Put them away before starting another activity. 

300

Your classwork feels too hard. What can you do instead of giving up.

Ask for help, take a short break, or do one step at a time

300

You disagree with a teacher. How can you explain your opinion respectfully? 

Use a calm voice, explain your concern, and listen to their response. 
300

You lose a game and throw the pieces. What could you do instead?

Take a break, ask for a break, and congratulate the winner. 

300

A classmate is sitting alone. What could you do?

Ask whether they would like cmpany ot invite them to join.

300

You damage someone's belongings. How can you make things right.  

Tell the truth, apologize, and help repair or replace them with adult support.

400

Someone calls you a name. What are two safe ways to respond?

Calmly ask them to stop, walk away, or tell a trusted adult. 

400

An adult tells you to do something that feels unsafe?

Ask why the rule exists and calmly suggest a fair alternative.

400

A friend dares you to make fun of another student. What can you say?

No, I'm not doing that, or let's do something else.

400

Your sibling takes something without asking? What can you say calmly.

Please give it back and ask me before using it. 

400

You use a device to send a hurtful message. What are the related consequences?

Pause device use, repair the harm, and practice safe messaging with an adult.

500

You feel so angry that you want to hit someone. Give a one-step plan. 

Move to a safe space, calm your body, and get help from an adult.

500

Is feeling angry a bad choice?

No, all feelings are okay. What we do with them matters. 

500

You shouted at someone and hurt their feelings. How can you repair the situation?

Calm down, take responsibility, apologize, and make a different choice next time. 

500

Two friends want different activities. How can they solve the problem fairly? 

Take turns choosing, find a compromise, or choose something both enjoy. 

500

What makes a consequence fair? 

It is safe, respectful, and related to the choice, and helps you learn or repair harm.