Reliance
T/F: Everyone relies on something.
True.
We rely on water, oxygen, sun, etc. We all rely on something bus drivers, grocery stores, etc.
T/F:2 common emotions often paired with disappointment are sadness and/or anger
TRUE
T/F: the best way to earn an incentive is by asking a friend to share their incentive with you
false. The best way to earn an incentive is by setting and reaching a goal
NOT asking your friend for their reward
Good/Bad Reliance?
I ran out of money and have a few days to go before I get paid again. I have a few friends who usually budget more than me so I know I can rely on them to cover for me until I get paid next.
Bad reliance: expecting others to give you money, relying on others to care for you, not making good financial choices
Good: friends, kindness
It's important for adults to practice awareness when it comes to alcohol. The four ways they can do that are mindfulness, consumption, conditions and ____.
a) respectfulness
b) responsibility
c) responsiveness
d) reactivity
b - responsibility
What days and times are the group walks?
Monday/Thursday 2-2:30 pm
List 3 PROs of reliance in relationships
-Strong trust, Boundaries, Healthy habits, Respect, Honesty, Lack of pressure, Balanced, etc
What are the 3 ways we can move forward after disappointment?
a) problem-solve, acceptance, coping
b) acceptance, coping, confrontation
c) coping, honesty, respect
d) problem-solve, affirmation, coping
A) problem-solve, acceptance, coping
Who is the best person to ask about things like vocational support, education, and my general case/conservatorship?
your case manager
My daughter believes she doesn't need to get a job or go to college after she graduates high school, she said her plan is to just move back home with me and have me take care of her forever.
Explain to her why this is not a good type of reliance
open ended,
This is not a good plan; relying on someone to provide for you forever without any agreed on plan is not good. This opens you up to things like lack of boundaries, no independence, etc.
You committed to baking a pie for the family dinner. You take the pie out of the oven and the top is burnt, the bottom is still raw, and it smells awful.
Using ALL problem-solve, acceptance, and coping, answer what you can do to move on from the disappointment?
problem-solve: bake a new pie, buy a new one, ask if someone else will trade tasks
acceptance: "this sucks, I really wanted to do a good job and this feels bad"
coping: take a break
Do I have to sing during karaoke/music groups?
Do I have to pick a song?
No and No
You do NOT have to sing or pick songs.
You are welcome to add songs to the queue and not sing. You are 100% welcome to add songs and not sing, add songs and sing, or just come to enjoy.
You ask your friend to pick you up at the airport next week and he agrees. You wait for him for a while and he never shows or answers his phone. You get an Uber home and later confront him.
He says "You shouldn't rely on people for everything. Just because you've picked me up before doesn't mean I'd do the same"
Respond to your friend. Explain good/bad and fair reliance and why his actions were not okay.
open ended,
bad reliance is expecting you to do everything, good is you agreeing to do something I asked that is not a total dependency, etc. As a friend I rely on you to be honest.
You meet a friend at a restaurant for brunch. She orders a mimosa flight and you order a coffee. She tells you that she's going to walk to work after this to her job as a pilot.
Which of the 4 awareness tools is she lacking and how could you explain awareness safety to her?
(mindful, consumption, conditions, responsibility)
mindful - several drinks may be too much
consumption - drinking alcohol before work
conditions - alcoholic volume in beverages
responsibility - flying when inebriated
open ended, you can't drink before flying a plane, that is unsafe. You should call off work today and be aware of what you drink before you work
When are the two times a soda is able to be earned every week?
Karaoke groups. 1st person on the queue gets 1st pick of prizes.
1 soda per music group, 1st come 1st serve