Sweet or Sour Friend?
Sarah calls Emily a mean name.
__________ is when you treat others the way you want to be treated.
The golden rule
Words are powerful. Once you say something out loud you can't take it back.
True
What is an I-message?
An I-message is a way to express on someone's actions are making you feel without placing any blame.
Matteo keeps leaning back on the carpet and keeps bumping into Valentina. Valentina is starting to get annoyed. What I-message could Valentina give to Matteo.
I feel annoyed when you keep leaning back into me on the carpet. Please respect my personal space.
Tommy invites the new student to sit with him at lunch.
Sweet friend
______ is when you accept others despite your differences.
Inclusion
If someone is mean to you it is okay to be mean to them back.
What are the 3 parts of an I-Message?
I feel_____
When you____
Please don't/ stop_____
Jessica and Christina cannot decide what to play at recess. Name 3 ways they can compromise to find a solution.
1. Take turns playing each other's game
2. Play one person's game today and the other tomorrow
3. Pick a different game both of them like
Sweet friend
What is peer conflict?
a general disagreement between friends
It is okay for friends to get into arguments.
True, all friends disagree at times, it is normal for friends to have conflict, but is it how friends solve their problems that defines their friendship
What does conflict resolution mean?
the way a problem is solved
Jaden is having a difficult time solving a math word problem. He keeps growling under his breath and then he decides to crumple up the worksheet. How is Jaden feeling and what can he do to solve this problem?
frustrated, try to do a calming strategy, ask for help.
Destiny tells Alexa she doesn't want her to be friends with Gabby anymore.
Sour friend
What is compromise?
If someone does something mean to you, you should tell a teacher right away.
False, try to solve the problem first on your own and if you can't solve the problem or the person does not stop then go to an adult.
True or False, if you feel that you didn't do anything wrong you don't need to say sorry.
False, even if you feel that you didn't do anything wrong you can always apologize for hurting someone's feelings or for the way our actions made someone else feel even if it was an accident or we didn't know we were doing it.
Earlier this year we read a story called Tyaja uses the THNK test. Tyaja did not like her friend Rosie's new haircut. Describe how she used the THNK test to decide not to tell Rosie how she felt about her hair cut.
T-True
H-Helpful
N-Necessary
K-Kind
Is it true? it was not based on facts, it was an opinion
Is it helpful? it is not helping her in any way, it will only hurt her feelings
Is is necessary? Telling her is not due to keeping her safe of danger
Is it kind? it is not kind to tell her she doesn't like her haircut
Sour friend.
*Bonus 100 points if you remember the term for what Joey is doing*
What is empathy?
Empathy is the ability to understand and relate to how someone is feeling.
A bystander is someone who stands up to bullying.
False, a bystander is someone who stands by and watches someone get bullied and does nothing to stop it. an UPstander is someone who stands up to bullying.
In the beginning of the year we learned about the 6 steps of conflict resolution. Below is a list of the steps with some steps missing. Fill in the rest of the steps.
Step 1:
Step 2:
Step 3: Take Responsibility
Step 4:
Step 5: Choose a solution
Step 6: Apologize & Forgive each other
Step 1: Cool off
Step 2: Talk it out
Step 3: Take Responsibility
Step 4: Brainstorm solutions
Step 5: Choose a solution
Step 6: Apologize & Forgive each other
Thiago is a new student. When his class comes out for recess he looks nervous as he stands alone on the black top kicking a rock back and forth. Lucas notices Thiago standing alone. What could Lucas do to show him empathy?
Lucas could introduce himself to the new student and invite him to play with him and his friends.