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What do we do when someone else is talking and why?
We look at them because it sends the message I care about you and I care what you have to say!
*They feel important!
*Helps us learn!
Sometimes when we have strong emotions like anxious or anger, our feelings part of the brain (amygdala) takes over the thinking part of our brain. What do we call this? (hint, hand brain).
Flip our Lids
What is "feeling or understanding what someone else is feelings?
Empathy
What is the first step of problem solving?
S - Say the Problem (without blame)
Name four of the "Eight Never Nevers" that we discussed in class.
Never Touch a Gun
Use Sharp Tools Alone
Always Wear a Helmet
Buckle Up
Never Play with Fire
Pet an Animal w/o Permission
Never Dive Right In
Check Both Ways Before Crossing
Name three parts of our bodies and what they are doing when we are being a good listener!
Eyes - on speaker
Mouth - closed (not blurting or interrupting)
Body Still
Hands to ourselves
Brain thinking about our speakers words.
What is the first two steps in the calm down steps?
1. STOP
2. NAME YOUR FEELINGS
What is empathy is action? When we see someone hurting and we say or do a kind thing?
Compassion
Give two examples of blaming words. Should we use them? Why or why not.
You Always
You Never
Because of you
They made me
What is the "Always Ask First Rule?"
Always ask the person in charge before doing something, going somewhere, or accepting something from someone.
Different levels of education.
What is the third step in calming down and give two ways to do it.
Calm Down: belly breathing, counting, positive self talk.
If someone is different than us we should:
A. Avoid them, they are probably bad.
B. Tease them
C. Try to change them to be like you.
D. Respect them
RESPECT THEM! Differences are not bad, they are what make us special and unique - let's celebrate those differences!
What is the second step in the Problem Solving Steps?
T - Think of Solutions
Give an example of an unsafe touch?
Anything that hurts: punch, trip, etc...
What do we call the person who witnesses bullying and what should they do?
Bystander - intervene (if safe) and report
Give three examples of positive self talk?
Answers may vary!
When two people look at the same thing or situation and see it differently, they have a different -----------?
Perspective
What is the third step in the Problem Solving Steps?
E - Explore Consequences (what could happen if)
Give an example of an unwanted touch?
Any touch that makes us feel uncomfortable, it does not need to hurt and we get to decide if it's wanted or unwanted, because our bodies belong to us.
What is bullying?
When someone is hurtful, on purpose and repeatedly.
Explain when and why someone would use the Calm Down Steps?
So we don't hurt someone or ourselves, make the situation worse, or get ourselves in trouble. To help us stay in control and be respectful.
Use it when we are really upset (getting out in Gaga Ball).
Name three clues a good "feelings detective" looks for?
Facial Expressions
Tone of Voice
Body Language
Situation (what's happening)
What is the final step in the Problem Solving Steps?
P - Pick the Best Solution
If someone tries to harm you what should you do?
Say NO
Get Away
Tell a Helper