Family Roles
is the one who needs to make the family, and role players, look good. They ignore the problem and present things in a positive manner as if the roles within the family did not exist. This person is the perfectionist. If they overcome this role they can play an important part in the addiction recovery process
What is the Hero
blaming
What is
this family role is that of the jester. They will often make inappropriate jokes about the those involved. Though they do bring humor to the family roles, it is often harmful humor, and they sometimes hinder addiction recovery.
What is the Mascot
is the silent, "out of the way" family member, and will never mention alcohol or recovery. They are quiet and reserved, careful to not make problems. They give up self needs and makes efforts to avoid any conversation regarding the underlying roles.
What is the Lost Child
often acts out in front of others. They will rebel, make noise, and divert attention from the person who is addicted and their need for help in addiction recovery. They cover or draw attention away from the real problem.
What is the scapegoat
makes all the other roles possible. They try to keep everyone happy and the family in balance, void of the issue. They make excuses for all behaviors and actions, and never mention addiction recovery or getting help.
What is enabler