Power and Control
The Constant Factors in Abusive/Battering Relationships
What is Power and Control
Having a caring, nonviolent caregiver can promote recovery in children who have experienced DV. This is most important step is to ensure the child's ______
What is Safety?
sending a message through body movements, behaviors, and the physical environment instead of words is?
What is Non-verbal Communication
Multiple Choice.
A barrier women face in seeking help with domestic violence issues is:
A. Concern about children involved
B. Custody and visitation issues
C. Transitional assistance and support D. All of the above
What is D. all of the above.
Giving Compliments, Giving massage, and Doing Laundry are all possible examples of symbolically contributing or filling this for your partner.
What is Filling Emotional Bank Account/Love Bucket
Abuse Accomplished Through Perception of Impending (future) violence?
What is intimidation/Fear?
Thoughts like: I am unlovable, will someone love me if they find out?; what if I become an abuser?; what if I end up with an abuser?;my parents wouldn't have fought if it weren't for my behaviors.
What are thoughts children who experience abuse may have?
Give an example of responding with "I" type messages.
For example, if someone upset you, you would say....
What is ...
I felt upset when you did that
Telling your partner what she/they can and cannot wear is what form of abuse?
What is Emotional abuse?
_________is that line or limit which partners set to protect themselves and relationship and prevent themselves from exploitation and manipulation
What is a boundary?
None on limited contact with Family or Friends Because of Abuse/Abuser
What is Isolation?
What is a healthy discipline tactic that doesn’t use physical force? (e.g. spanking)
Facilitator Discretion
Understanding the ____________ (image) is important to communicate________emotions
What is the
Anger or Emotion Iceberg
Primary or core
Low self esteem, low sense of self-worth and being fearful
What is the Effects of violence on a victim.
Listening to her non-judgmentally. Being emotionally affirming and understanding. Valuing her opinions.
What is showing Respect?
_____ is when your emotions, words, and experiences are twisted and used against you, causing you to question your reality.
What is Gaslighting?
Poor Concentration, Aggressive/bullying behaviors, poor performance/negative reports, inability to maintain healthy friendships
What are effects of DV on Children at School?
Listening with our whole bodies to show the other person we are listening.
What is Active Listening
The non-compassionate typical societal response that involves sexual assault against women, that typical says it is she was at fault for provoking the attack
What is victim blaming?
Describe the Elements of Taking a Healthy Time-Out
What is
“I had a bad childhood,” “I had a bad day,” or “describing what your partner did” are all examples of this.
What is Justification? (Blame/Minimization)
The reason children often side with abusive partner/parent
Fear/Desire to maintain safety
Name the three communication styles and explain each one.
What is...
Aggressive - Loud, rude, combative, bulldozing
The ability to understand and share the feelings of another person?
What is Empathy?
Words of Affirmation, Physical Touch, Gifts, Quality Time, and Acts of Service
what are the 5 love languages!