What to do instead
Sarah went to the movies with her friend Casey. While watching the movie, Casey would not stop texting and it was disrupting the movie. Sarah stormed out of the movie and left because she was so frustrated.
What could've Sarah done instead?
A. Sarah did nothing wrong
B. Sarah should've quietly let Casey know she was bothering other people and she should put her phone away
My best friend invited people over to play video games but didn't invite me. I found only found out because I saw them all together on Snapchat.
I feel...
Sad, upset, frustrated, annoyed, angry, etc...
We threw my friend her first surprise party! She came home to balloons, presents, a cake, and all of her friends!
She feels...
happy, loved, excited, surprised, etc.
All of my friends went to the movies without me and I would have really liked to go.
What should I do next?
A. Ignore them for the rest of the week because they forgot about me.
B. Let them know I would like to go next time.
C. Yell at them and tell them they are terrible friends.
What could've John done instead?
A. John should have tripped the person when they weren't looking
B. John should have called the police
C. John could have said, "excuse me, the line begins back there" and pointed to the end of the line
I was too busy last night and did not have enough time to study for my test today. It's time to take my test and I do not feel prepared at all....
I feel...
nervous, scared, worried, etc.
Harry was the only person in class to fail our math test. Now he has to come in during lunch and retake it.
Harry may feel...
Confused, frustrated, embarrassed, nervous, etc.
I saw my friend drop a $20 bill from her pocket when she was rushing off to class.
What should I do next?
A. Finders keepers, Losers weepers. It's my $20 now since she wasn't more careful.
B. Pick it up and bring it to her
C. Pretend you didn't see anything and walk away. Who cares.
Kelly really wanted to go see a new scary movie that came out but her friend Tara is afraid of scary movies and would rather see a comedy. Kelly yelled at Tara and said, "You're such a cry baby! It's just a scary movie you wimp!"
What should have Kelly said instead?
A. Kelly should have said, "The movie isn't that scary, you'll be fine, don't be such a scaredy cat"
B. Kelly should ask her friend if they could comprise and choose a different movie together.
My friends surprised me on my birthday with a cake, presents, and tickets to see my favorite band!
I feel...
Excited, happy, loved, appreciative, etc.
Maddy was walking into the cafeteria and tripped and spilled her lunch all over the floor and everyone started laughing.
Maddy may feel...
Embarrassed, sad, frustrated, annoyed, angry
I'm in a rush at the airport and need to get to my gate soon but the person in front of me is walking really slow and is in my way.
What should I do next?
A. Just go around them or find another path
B. Yell at them and say, "What is your problem? You're slower than a snail!"
C. Get really close to them so they feel uncomfortable and move out of the way.
Derek saw his friend Ben making fun of the new kid in school. Derek felt bad for the new student, but didn't want Ben to make fun of him too. So, Derek joined Ben in making fun of new student.
What could have Derek done instead?
A. Done nothing and just pretended he didn't see anything
B. Derek could've told his friend Ben, "Hey man that's not cool, just leave him alone."
C. Derek could've punched his friend in the nose.
It is starting to rain very badly and the thunder and lightning are getting worse. Now, I can hear the tornado sirens going off and I am home alone.
I feel...
Scared, worried, nervous, anxious, etc.
I was in a rush on my way to class today and feeling frustrated. When my friend Dylan saw me, he tried to say "Hi" but I yelled, "Don't talk to me right now! Can't you see I'm busy!"
Dylan may feel...
Hurt, confused, frustrated, sad, etc.
My friend Jimmy bought new shoes and seems really excited about them. He really likes them and asked me what I think but... the truth is, I don't really like them.
What should I do next?
A. Lie and tell Jimmy you love them but tell all of your other friends the truth so they know you don't actually like them.
B. Tell Jimmy they are hideous shoes and he should probably try to get his money back.
C. Tell Jimmy you're glad he loves his new shoes and that he must be happy to have them!
Kaitlin just got her hair cut and she's really excited to show her friend Natalie. When Natalie saw Kaitlin she shouted, "Oh no! They totally ruined your hair! I hope it grows out soon so you aren't stuck that way for too long!"
What could have Natalie said instead?
A. Natalie did nothing wrong
B. Natalie could've said, "Well, to be honest, I don't like it at all. Sorry."
C. Natalie could've said, "Wow Kaitlin, I'm so glad you like your new haircut! That's great!"
I spent all morning getting ready for picture day and finally got my hair and outfit just right. While I was waiting for the bus to pick me up, a car hit a giant puddle of water and completely covered me in mud and water. Now I am dirty and dripping wet.
I feel...
Angry, upset, shocked, annoyed, etc.
My friends and I don't really like to hangout with Tessa because she talks a lot. We all planned to hangout today but we did not invite her and kept it secret. But, she knows we are together because she saw our pictures on social media.
Tessa might feel...
Hurt, upset, left out, sad, angry, etc.
While I was at the mall, my friend Diane started feeling pretty sick. She said she may be okay but now she is feeling like she is going to pass out.
What should I do next?
A. Ask for help immediately (call a parent/guardian or dial 911 if she does faint)
B. Tell her to get over it, she'll be fine
C. Have her sit for a bit and get some water to see if she will feel better.
(Hint: There are two options)