Expected vs Unexpected Behavior
You start calling your friends or teacher mean names because you do not want to do your school work
unexpected behavior
You are very excited to tell your friend about what you did over the weekend. You start telling your friend what you did and they continue to look at the floor while you are talking.
What might you be thinking?
I feel like they do not care about me
I dropped my last pencil and it broke on the floor.
small problem; ask teacher for a new one
Who makes us get too upset over a small problem?
Glassman
Your teacher is explaining directions to the class of how to complete a worksheet. You are singing a song out loud and looking at the floor.
Act it out and what might the teacher be thinking and size of the problem.
the teacher is thinking that I am not paying attention; medium problem
1. What is the difference between expected and unexpected behavior?
AND
2. What is an example of each?
1. Expected behaviors are expectation we are supposed to be doing and unexpected are behaviors that may be unsafe and can make others around us feel uncomfortable around us
2. Expected: following teachers directions, having safe hands and calm body, raising my hand
Unexpected: throwing objects, hitting, or anything that make make someone feel unsafe or uncomfortable
Bill sits at lunch by himself. Caleb invites Bill to eat lunch with him and his friends.
What might be 2 things that Bill is thinking?
Bill is being a nice person.
I might want to become friends with him
I might ask him to play outside at recess with me.
I accidently get hand sanitizer on my shirt while I am cleaning my hands.
small problem; wait for my shirt to dry
What does One-Sided Sid do to us?
•He makes us only talk about our own set of topics or our own plan.
•He makes us have difficulty seeing the other side of someone’s story.
• He makes us want to interrupt people when they are talking.
Act out a scenario when brain eater got in your way
Act it out
Ms. Scott and Mr. Robbins are supposed to line up to go to lunch. Mr. Robbins gets there first and Ms. Scott gets mad because she wanted to be first. Ms. Scott pushes Mr. Robbins out of the way and takes his place.
Unexpected behavior
Bill is playing with his toys when his dad asks him for the third time to clean his room and put his toys away.
What might his dad be thinking?
I might have to take one of bills toys away if he doe not clean up
I have asked him mutiple times to clean up
I am getting mad or angry he is not listening or following directions
I really want to be first in line for lunch and be first when I play any game with my friends.
Rigid thinking
Rock Brain
You are running outside at recess and a football hits your leg. You become very angry and start yelling at the person.
How are we going to solve this problem and size of the problem?
The person probably did it on accident; just walk away and continue playing at recess; small problem
You have an assembly at school and Ms. Murray is talking in front of the whole school. You are sitting quietly and following directions.
expected behavior
Ms. Hinkle keeps asking her mom for a cat. Her mom tell her no. Ms. Hinkle continues to ask her 20 mores times for a cat. She will not stop asking.
What might her mom be thinking?
I said no the first time
Why does she keep asking me for a cat
I am getting mad or irritated with her
Someone is bothering you over and over again
small or medium problem; tell an adult about the problem
I make it hard for you to focus on things you are doing or during interactions with others. I am good at finding things you enjoy to get you off task and wonder.
Brain eater
Think about a time when you had rock brain
You can act it out
Act it out
You have a substitute teacher today. You are sitting in your chair quietly and raising your hand when you have a question to ask.
expected behavior
Ms. Triano and Ms. Smith are watching a scary movie. Ms. Smith scares easily. Ms. Triano enjoys scary movies.
What might Ms. Smith be thinking?
I better tell Ms. Triano I do not like scary movies
Find a different movie to watch
You have an emergency that has happened at home
big problem; get help from an adult immediately
Who is Superflex?
He is a great problem solver and can think of many different solutions to one problem.
Act out a scenario/situation when you were Superflex
Act it out