I don't care if I hurt other people
I don't want to hurt other people...I know what it's like to get hurt
I never make mistakes
Everyone makes mistakes. If I find a way to learn from my mistakes, I'll be much happier
You can't trust anyone!
I can't trust some people, but other people genuinely care about me and I can trust them. Trust takes time to develop.
Things are never my fault
Things are probably my fault about half of the time. Things seem to work better I just admit what I've done wrong.
I hate rules. I refuse to follow them.
I have to follow rules just like everybody else. Maybe the rule has a purpose.
She deserves to be punished!
She need to know she mistreated me (or others). Maybe I can be the one to let her know.
Nothing bad should ever happen to me.
Bad things happen to everyone; I'm no exception, but bad things don't have to destroy me.
He's out to get me.
He might be out to get me, but what would really please him is if lose control. I'll show him who is in control.
This kid is always picking on me!
This kid is maybe just having a hard day. I can use assertive communication and I can also let some things go.