Seating
This person directs the guest to their designated seat.
The host.
What should you not bring to the table?
Phones and bags.
What is the first thing you do when you sit down at the table?
Unfold your napkin
Bonus: In very formal settings, the guest waits for the host to unfold their napkin first.
What do you do when you need to excuse yourself from the table?
Simply excuse yourself. You don't need to say why (especially if you need to go to the bathroom).
How do you know when the meal is over?
When the host finishes.
This person gets the best seat.
The guest of honor.
What should not be on the table while eating?
Your elbows!
What is done as a sign to indicate that the meal has started?
The Host unfolds their napkin first to indicate that the meal has started.
Should you chew with your mouth open?
No! Take smaller manageable bites and swallow before speaking.
What should you do after a meal as a guest?
Send a thank you note to the host the next day to show your appreciation for the meal!
Who sits at the head of the table?
The host.
What should not be pressed against the back of your chair?
Your back.
Who eats first?
The Host will be the first to eat, and then the other guests will follow.
Should you clink your glass? Why, or why not?
No, because it could damage the glasses.
What do you do with your cutlery once the meal is over?
Place your fork and knife at an angle. Face the handles at a 4 o'clock position and the tips will be facing a 10 o'clock position.
Where does the guest of honor's seat face?
Usually the main area or entrance, or where they will get the best view.
What should you avoid once sitting down?
Don't slouch! roll your shoulders back and keep your posture upright.
When do you start eating?
Once everyone has been served their food.
What do you do when you are at a friend's house for dinner and you don't like the food?
Serve yourself a small portion and be polite.
What do you do with your napkin when the meal is over?
Fold it (not perfectly) and place it to your left.