ABA
Kaylee has to cancel a session
Little deal - she will see you on another day
Mom says no to dessert
Little deal - you can have dessert on another day
You are told you're not allowed to clean up at crossfit
Little deal - It's ok to skip cleaning up sometimes. It is important to share with other members of the group.
Kaylee says no to stacking hearts
Little deal - use coping skills, try another activity
Mom is busy with work but you want to tell her something
Little deal - you can wait for mom to be done. You can ask for help writing it down so you don't forget.
You slept too late and missed breakfast
Little deal - It's ok, you can eat lunch instead. If you are upset, use coping skills.
You have a new BI
Big deal - New friends are fun but also can make you nervous. Be nice and use coping skills while you get to know your new friend.
Mom gets hurt
Big deal - use coping skills to stay calm, ask for help from an adult if they are around. Help mom and do what she asks of you.
Someone moves dishes while I am putting them away
Little deal - this doesn't mean I am doing a bad job. I an use my words and ask them to stop.
A BI leaves the case, you won't see them again
Big deal - This is a part of life. ABA people will come and go but we can use coping skills and make new friends when old ones leave.
Mom takes away your tablet
little deal - I can make good choices and earn it back
Crossfit is cancelled for today
Little deal - you can go next time. You can exercise at home if you still want to move your body.
Kaylee tells you to do something you don't like
Little deal - you can use your words and let her know. You can use coping skills and calm yourself down.
Mom goes on a business trip and leaves me home with caregivers or grandma
Big deal - This can be upsetting but I am okay staying home with my caregivers or grandma. I can use coping skills and talk to someone if I feel sad and miss mom. I can also call mom on the phone.
Your schedule changes without you knowing
Little deal - sometimes changes happen and you have to be flexibe. You can use coping skills if you feel upset.