Unexpected and Expected
Listening to your teacher, brushing your teeth daily, Keeping hands and feet to self
Expected Behaviors
Rules that tells us what to do in a situation. People don't talk about, but we are expected to know them and follow them.
Hidden Rules
What are the 4 tools that a social detective uses?
Situation = ________ + Place + What's happening
People
Give an example of what you could say if you lose a game.
Good Job! That was fun! You played well!
Give 2 examples of Unexpected behaviors in the classroom
Any 2 exampled
Give 3 examples of hidden rules in the classroom/at school.
Sit at desk, say please and thank you, follow the group plan, keep your body in the group. think with your eyes. wait your turn, stay in line in the hallway.
This is how Any was feeling when she had a calm voice, body and face.
Happy, calm
What clues can I gather so I know what someone is thinking/feeling?
Look at their face/body
Listen to their words/tone of voice
Think about the clues and make a smart guess
This is an example of an uncomfortable thought that a teacher could have if her student is doing an unexpected behavior. For example, not thinking with their eyes or brain, talking out, and or body out of the group.
How do others feel when we have unexpected behaviors?
Uncomfortable, they may bot want to play with me or be around me.
How can we learn hidden rules?
The type of thinking your brain is doing to figure out yourself and others.
Social thinking
Give examples of tools you would use to know that someone is nice and safe to play with.
How they make you feel, what you hear them say, how they treat others, If they listen to adults
If we act in an unexpected way, what can we do to fix it?
Apologize, clean up, do our work, start behaving in expected ways
Give 3 examples of hidden rules at home.
Sit at dinner table, use fork and spoon at dinner, at bed time brush your teeth, use inside voice, only leaving the house with permission.
Our teacher gives us a our morning work and we turn it over to draw on it. This is _____________. We made a ___________ guess.
Unexpected/Wacky
Different types of “smarts” in our brains that we use for school learning: math smarts, computer smarts, music smarts, science smarts, and many more.
School Smarts
Name two smarts that you have.
School and Social
This is keeping your body about one arms length away from others. This is called _________ in the ________. It is expected behavior.
Body in the Group.
What are hidden rules in the grocery store?
Our mom/dad askes us to get ready for bed and we brush our teeth, put on our pajamas and get on our bed. This is ___________. We made a _________ guess.
Expected/Smart
True/False: There are only hidden rules at school and home.
False.
Your friend told a funny joke at recess. Make a smart guess about what will happen next.
Everyone will laugh.