The Family System
Positive Patterns of Interaction
Dealing With Conflict
Abuse
Vocab
100

A community where policies and actions are promoted to bring about better living conditions for all people

What is a free society?

100

expectations for specific behaviors in a family

What is a family code of conduct?

100

conflicts arise when a family member try to solve another's problem. Taking steps to do this with your problems help prevent conflict and strengthen family interactions

What is owning your problems?

100

Physical abuse, shaken baby syndrome, emotional abuse, sexual abuse, trafficking, and neglect 

What are different forms of child abuse? 

100

living as a victim or as a person who has ever been wronged, harmed, or hurt by others

What is victimhood?

200

Satisfying physical needs, promoting emotional support, speaking and being heard, supporting and encouraging

What are the four areas on rights and responsibilities?

200

established patterns of behavior or customs handed down through generations that often build a sense of family identity

What are family traditions?

200

Using these communication skills shows empathy and encourages family members to solve their own problems

What is active listening and I-statements?

200

repeated and unexplained bruises, welts, burns, fractures, joint injuries, cuts, or scrapes. Hostile or overly compliant

What are signs of physical abuse?

200

brain damage caused by fast and forceful shaking, blows to the head, or dropping or throwing a child

What is shaken baby syndrome?

300

children get older or there is a change within or outside the family that affects a family member's ability to fulfill responsibilities

What are reasons family roles and responsibilities change?

300

small events or activities that are repeated on a regular basis to strengthen families and provide opportunities for sharing and showing affection

What are family routines?

300

When one person tries to rescue and enable others to continue with problematic behaviors instead of letting others take responsibility for their own choices

What is a codependent relationship?

300

begging or stealing food, constant fatigue, failing to attend school, showing up to school early/leaving late

What are signs of neglect?

300

individuals required by law to report cild abuse to the authorities if they know or suspect it is happening

What are mandated reporters?

400

support a family member who is unable to fulfill responsibilites and work together to take on responsibilities that a family member can't fulfill 

What are the two ways to restore balance in a family?

400

when communication lines are open, privacy is respected, and genuine concern and respect are showed for family members

What is trust?

400

taking ownership of your problems and letting family members know that solving the problem is something you need to do by expressing I-statements

What is reviewing personal boundaries?

400

bedwetting, torn or stained underclothing, difficulty walking/sitting, frequent urinary tract infections, sore throats, social withdrawal, lack of emotional control, low self-esteem

What are signs of sexual abuse?

400

Crisis-care centers, shelters, group homes, foster care, independent living

What are care options for abused children?

500

All family members interact with one another and every member has an effect on every other family member

What is a family system?

500

Family members work together to jointly select the best choice and help carry out the plan of action

What is democratic decision making?

500

when family members will not take ownership of a problem that is theirs and instead blames others

What is scapegoating?

500

Good communication, decision-making, conflict resolution skills, and seeking professional 

What are ways the cycle of abuse can be broken in a family?

500

one cannot exist without the other

What is interrelated?