Stay Calm
How Do I Feel?
What Happened?
What Are My Choices?
What Are the Consequences?
100

A question or difficulty needing a solution.

What is a problem?

100

Feeling or showing strong annoyance, displeasure, or hostility.

What is angry?
100

Something that is true and can be proven. 

What is a fact?

100

Guidelines for this include: thinking and writing as fast as you can, writing in any order, writing everything you think, and not judging the ideas. 

What is brainstorming?

100

This logically or naturally follows an action.  

What is a consequence?

200

Saying things to ourselves either verally or mentally; it can change our moods and affect how we perform. 

What is Self-Talk?

200

Experiencing worry, unease, or nervousness, typically about an imminent event or something with an uncertain outcome.

What is anxious?

200

An opinion or judgement. 

What is a belief?

200

The only thing you have complete control over. 

What are your thoughts and actions?

200

Consequences can be ______ or negative. 

What is positive?

300

Breathe in through your nose slowly to the count of 5; hold your breath to the count of 5, and slowly exhale through your mouth to the count of 5. 

What is Deep Breathing?

300

Feeling or showing envy of someone or their achievements and advantages.

What is jealousy?

300

When telling what really happened, you want to tell what you ______ and what you ______.

What is saw and heard?

300

When you can't solve a problem on your own, you may need to ___ ___ _____ ____.

What is "ask for adult help"? 
300

Name for what happens when you throw a stone into the middle of a calm pond or lake; in the same way, our choices can have far-reaching effects.

What is The Ripple Effect?

400

Alternating between breathing through only one nostril and then the other nostril. 

What is Concentrated Breathing? 

400

Sad because one has no friends or company.

What is lonely?

400

Telling yourself that something is true without actually having any evidence that it is.

What is an assumption?

400

When brainstorming your choices, it is important to include the ____ behaviors in order to show the consequences.

What is wrong?

400

A technique where you write out the positive and negative consequences that go with each choice and think carefully about which choice holds the most benefits for you.

What is Weighing the Consequences?

500

Tightening and relaxing your muscle groups, one at a time, in a specific pattern to release tension.

What is Muscle Relaxation?

500

Hopeful and confident about the future.

What is optimistic?

500

It is important to make ______ based on the facts and not our beliefs or assumptions. 

What is decisions?

500

This affects how others think of us and can affect our future.

What are our actions?

500

Society's chosen punishments and rewards, which includes school rules and society's laws.

What are Imposed Consequences?