STOP
WHAT DOES STOP STAND FOR / MEAN
STOP
THINK ABOUT
OPTIONS
PROCEED
SKILL/ HOW
You want to go to a party at with friends, but you have chores to do at home. What skill and how
Negotiating
S / Example
STOP
Cold
You want to go to a party at with friends but you have chores to do at home. What skill and how
Response
T/Example
Think about it
Warm
You want to plan a sleepover and mom is like no.
O/ Example
Options
Hot
Mom just dropped you off to work and she made it home and is working. You need mom to stop working and come get you because you are not on the schedule.
P/ Example
Proceed
Muy Caliente
You are in an elective that you don't like and there are some kids in that class bothering you. Mom wants you to stay in the class, but you want to be removed from it.