Cognitive Distortions
pretending something isn't true when it really is
What is Denial?
when a person shows private parts to another person who has not given permission for such activity
What is indecent exposure
simple, helpful skill to help impulsive clients. (acronym)
What is SODA (Stop, Options, Decide, Act)?
like flirting, except that you know that you intend to act out sexually with that victim
What is grooming?
Carry the message of accountability and responsible living to others
What is step 12
when you only think about yourself
What is me, me, me?
when a person sneaks a look at another person without that person's permission
What is Peeping or Voyeurism?
10 percent is visible and 90 percent remains hidden
What is anger iceberg?
grooming behaviors that involve threats of any kind, intimidation or force
What is coercion?
admit that I have had sexual behavior problems and that my behavior has been out of control, harmful and irresponsible
What is step 1?
you use this to avoid getting into trouble, or to avoid embarrassment
What is blaming?
when a person calls someone on the phone and says sexual things that the other person doesn't want to hear.
What is obscene phone calls or harassment?
when you help another person avoid the consequences of his/her behavior
What is enabling?
thinking or acting in a self-centered or self-indulgent way
What is maintenance behaviors?
become honest with others in all areas of my life
What is step 4
you use this thinking error and related behaviors to get others to do things for you that you should be doing for yourself
What is victim stance?
what is incest?
when a person acts without thinking about what might happen
What is impulsivity?
maintenance behaviors that have the greatest chance of leading directly into an existing offense behavior chain
What gateway behaviors?
start to make restitution or direct amends for my behavior wherever possible
What is step 9?
Any statement that doesn't leave room for anything else
What is Universals?
when victims go along without actively resisting, even though they may think it is wrong
What is compliance and cooperation?
What is anger?
for your treatment program to be successful, you will need to find a way to control or eliminate all of these
What is maintenance behaviors?
learn to have healthy and non-victimizing relationships
What is step 10?