Passive, aggressive or assertive
When a person states their needs and wants clearly, appropriately, and respectfully
Assertive communication
You are ALWAYS late and keep me waiting. It really makes me mad!
Something like: "I feel frustrated and annoyed when we make plans and you are not ready at the time we agreed on."
A person who has a tendency to not stand up for themselves
Passive
When someone speaks in a loud & demanding voice, interrupts frequently, and criticizes, blames, or attack others.
Aggressive communication
"You always pick the worst movies to watch!"
Something like: "I don't really feel like that kind of movie tonight. Let's choose a movie we will both enjoy."
What is the best communication style to use in a conflict?
Assertive communication
Your friend is failing Math and there is a very important test coming up. Your friend asks to cheat off of you and you agree even though you are uncomfortable doing so. What communication style is this?
Passive communication
To your teacher, "You only gave me a failing grade because you hate me!"
Something like: "Can we talk about my grade? I want to do better on my next report card. What do I need to do to raise my grade?"
You're upset with your Mom for throwing away some of your old Comic books. How should you tell her?
A.) That was really mean and thoughtless
B.) How could you do something so horrible?
C.) I'm upset that you threw away my comic books.
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True or false: Being a passive communicator too often can lead to lower confidence and self-esteem.
True
"You NEVER let me go to my friend's house!"
Something like: "I haven't seen my friend in a long time and I miss her. When is a good time for me to visit?"
Your friend borrows your favorite video game and loses it. What should you do?
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