Zones of Regulation
Coping Skills
Friendship
I-Statement
Positive Words
100

What are the four Zones of Regulation?

Blue, Green, Yellow, and Red

100

What is a coping skill?

Something you do to help yourself feel better.

100

What is the quality of a good friend?

Kindness, honesty, good listener, trustworthy, likes the same things I like, respectful, etc.
100

What is an I-Statement?

A way to express feelings without blaming others.

100

Name a positive word that describes a friend.

Kind, helpful, fun...etc.

200

Which zone represents feeling calm, focused, and ready to learn?

Green Zone

200

Name a coping skill that helps calm the body.

Deep breathing, stretching, taking a walk, talk to a friend, listen to music, etc.

200

If a friend is feeling sad, what is one way you can support them?

Asking them how they feel or offering to spend time with them.

200

What is the word structure you use in an I-Statement?

I feel....when....because...and I need...

200

What is a positive word you can use to say to yourself when you are struggling?

I am strong, capable, brave, hardworking, etc.
300

Name two feelings associated with the Yellow Zone.

Excited, frustrated, stressed, annoyed, scared...etc.

300

Name a coping skill that involves movement.

Running, jumping, dancing.

300

What is an example of a boundary in a friendship?

"I need some space right now"; not sharing personal secrets without permission...
300

Turn this into an I-Statement:  "You never listen to me!"

I feel ignored when I talk and you don't respond because I want to feel heard.  I need you to look at me when I speak.  

300

How can positive words impact someone's mood?

They can help someone feel encouraged, motivated and supported.

400

If someone is in the Red Zone, what type of coping strategy might help them?

Deep breathing, taking a break, using a fidget, talk to an adult, etc.

400

If you are feeling overwhelmed, what is a distracting coping skill you could use?

Coloring, puzzles, watch a show, etc.

400

If two friends have a disagreement, what is a healthy way to solve the problem?

What is talking it out, using "I" statements, or listening to one another.

400

Why are I-Statements more effective than You-Statements in conflicts?

Because they focus on your feelings instead of blaming the other person, making it easier to solve problems.

400

Give an example of a positive sentence/affirmation you could say to yourself.

I am strong.  I can handle challenges.

500

Give an example of a situation where someone might be in the Blue Zone and what they could do to move to the Green Zone.

Feeling tired in the morning...stretching, drinking water, having breakfast...

500

Explain why different coping skills work for different people.

Because people have different personalities, experiences, and ways they react to stress.

500

What is the difference between a healthy friendship and a toxic friendship?

A healthy friendship makes you feel safe and valued, while a toxic friendship may involve manipulation, jealousy, or constant negativity.

500

Create an I-Statement for this situation:  Your friend borrowed your book and returned it damaged.

I feel upset when my things aren't taken care of because I care about my books.  I need you to be more careful when borrowing them.

500

Why is it important to use positive words when talking to yourself?

Positive self-talk affects your confidence, emotions, and motivation.