Speak Up
Passive, Assertive, Aggressive
Real-Life
100

What should you say if someone cuts you in line?

Excuse me! I was here first. 

100

Yelling at someone to get your way is which style?

Aggressive

100

Your friend wants you to skip homework and play games with them instead. What do you do?

Tell them you need to finish your work first and will see them afterwards. 

200

Your teacher explained a new math topic too quickly. What do you do?

Raise your hand and ask for help. 

200

Not saying anything even though something is bothering you. What style?

Passive

200

A classmate won't stop teasing you. What could you do? 

Tell them to stop and ask an adult for help if necessary. 

300

Your friend continuously interrupts you. What do you do?

Calmly ask them to let you finish. 

300

Saying how you feel politely. What style?

Assertive

300

Someone takes credit for your idea in class. What do you do?

Pull them aside to see if it was on purpose and reclaim your credit for the idea. 

400

You're at a restaurant and get the wrong meal. 

Politely tell the waiter and ask for them to fix it. 

400

Saying "whatever" and walking away when you're upset without dealing with the issue. What style?

Passive

400

You want to be team captain, but so does your friend. What do you do?

Kindly ask to share the responsibility and take turns. 

500

Your friend embarrasses you in front of your crush. What do you say to them? 

That was really hurtful, please don't do that again. 
500

Demanding someone stop talking and calling them mean names. What style?

Aggressive

500

A person in your group for a class project is being bossy and won't let anyone else share ideas. What do you do?

Politely ask them to share the work and listen to other's ideas.