Taking Responsibility
What does it mean to "own your actions: even if you didn't mean to hurt someone?
It means accepting the impact of what you did and working to make it right.
What is one way to show someone respect when they are speaking.
Listen without interrupting.
What is a personal boundary?
A limit you set to protect your well-being and comfort.
What is a compliment?
A kind statement about someone's qualities, actions, or appearance.
You accidentally interrupt someone in group. What should you do?
Say, "Sorry, go ahead," and let them finish speaking.
Name one thing you can say instead of "It's not my fault."
I see how my actions affected you. I understand and I'll work to fix it.
True or False: You can respect someone even if you disagree with them.
True
Give an example of a physical boundary.
Not wanting someone to touch you without permission.
True or False: Building someone up means you have to be fake nice.
False-It means being honest but kind.
A group member says something that hurts your feelings. What is a healthy way to respond?
Calmly tell them how you feel and what you need.
You forgot to do your chore. What's the responsible way to respond when asked about it?
Admit you forgot, apologize, and make a plan to do it right away.
Give two examples of disrespect in a group setting.
Interrupting, making fun of someone, ignoring their ideas.
Give an example of an emotional boundary.
Choosing not to share personal details with someone you don't trust.
Give an example of positive feedback you could give a group member.
You did a great job explaining your idea.
You see someone being left out of a group conversation. What could you do?
Invite them in or ask for their opinions.
True or False: Taking responsibility means you have to agree with everything the other person says.
False-you can take responsibility for your part without agreeing with everything.
What is one respectful way to tell someone you don't like their idea?
I see your point, but I have a different suggestion.
True or False: Boundaries are only about keeping people away.
False. Boundaries can also help relationships stay healthy.
Someone makes a mistake in the group. How could you respond in a way that encourages them?
That's okay. We all make mistakes. Let's figure it out together.
A friend tells you a secret, but you think it's unsafe. How do you handle it?
Tell a trusted adult or authority to keep them safe.
Give an example of an apology that takes full responsibility without making excuses.
I'm sorry I was late. I didn't manage my time well, and I'll work on being on time in the future.
You feel frustrated with a group member. What's one respectful action you can take?
Take a break, use calm language, or talk privately instead of in front of the group.
A friend keeps trying to talk to you late at night when you're ready to sleep. How can you set a healthy boundary?
Let them know you don't want to engage in conversation after a certain time.
List three ways you can encourage a friend.
Compliment them, cheer them on, and thank them for their effort.
Two group members are arguing. What could you say or do to help keep the group respectful?
Suggest taking turns talking, or ask for a break so emotions can cool down.