Tactics to Influence Individuals
Top 5 Principles of How to win friends and influence people
UDEA Framework
100

which tactic is this? Appeal that is directed at the individual's rational and intellect because these individuals are thinkers.

Logical appeal 

100

what is principle 1?

Don't criticize, condemn, or complain
100

problem that needs solving or the goal that is trying to be achieved

understanding

200

which tactic is this? aimed towards the feelings of other individuals 

Emotional Appeal 

200
what is principle 2?

become genuinely interested in other people

200

to learn what is at stake and why a solution is needed

digging deep

300

which tactic is this? Collaboration and seeing what ideas everyone has.

Cooperative Appeal 

300

what is principle 3?

talk in terms of the other person's interest

300

using tools such as data, stories, and stats to show how your idea is the solution

evidence

400

which tactic does this fall under? Our language should say "I feel," or "I would be pleased with..."

Emotional Appeal

400

what is principle 4?

the only way to get the best of an argument is to avoid it

400

to seek the deal about how to move forward

agreement

500

Which tactic does this fall under? our language should say "we," "us," and "team"

Cooperative Appeal

500

what is principle 5?

let the other person do a great deal of the talking

500

what does UDEA stand for?

Understanding, Digging Deep, Evidence, and Agreement