Definitions
Lines Not to Cross
More Lines Not to Cross
Substance Abuse
Miscellaneous
100

 Being accountable for your behavior.

What is Responsibility?

100

This word describes telling someone clearly what you are okay with and not okay with.

What is setting a boundary?

100

This boundary type deals with your body, personal space, and things like touch or privacy.

What are physical boundaries?

100

 Using alcohol or drugs in a way that harms your body, school, or relationships is called this.

What is addiction?

100

When someone has both a mental health condition and a substance use problem at the same time, this is called.

What are co-occurring disorders?

200

Not taking responsibility for your actions, duties, or decisions.

What is Irresponsibility?
200

This short word is a complete sentence and is often used to protect your boundaries.

What is “no”?

200

Respecting others’ boundaries means listening to their limits and doing this.

What is honoring them? / What is respecting them?

200

This legal substance is found in coffee, soda, and energy drinks and can make you feel more awake.

What is caffeine?

200

This mental health condition involves extreme sadness, low energy, and loss of interest in activities, which can sometimes lead someone to self-medicate with substances.

What is depression?

300

Responsibility is also like being..

What is dependable?

300

This type of boundary protects your feelings and how others talk to you.

What are emotional boundaries?

300

Sharing your passwords or private messages without permission is an example of ignoring this type of boundary.

What is digital/online boundary?

300

This is a strong craving or need to use a substance even if it causes problems.

What is addiction?

300

Anxiety, ADHD, or PTSD occurring alongside substance use are examples of this type of condition.

What are co-occurring mental health disorders?

400

Pointing the finger at someone else to avoid responsibility

What is Blame?

400

When a friend keeps texting you nonstop after you asked for space, they are doing this.

What is crossing a boundary?

400

This boundary skill allows you to stand firm while still being kind and considerate of others.

What is healthy assertiveness?

400

When someone feels sick or anxious after stopping a drug they’ve been using, this is called.

What is withdrawal?

400

Using drugs or alcohol to cope with depression or anxiety is sometimes called this.

What is self-medication?

500

Owning your own choices, actions, and their impact.

What is Accountability?

500

This word describes the uncomfortable feeling you get when someone pushes past your limit, and it signals that you may need to set or restate a boundary.  

What is discomfort? / What is a red flag?

500

 This uncomfortable feeling can signal that someone is violating your boundary.

What is discomfort / unease?

500

This term describes when using one substance makes it more likely to use another, often leading to multiple addictions at once.

What is co-occurring substance use / polysubstance use?

500

This type of professional can help teens with co-occurring disorders by combining therapy for both mental health and substance use.

What is a counselor / therapist / mental health professional?