Belonging VS Fitting in
The thing you keep when you truly belong, but trade away when you fit in.
What is authenticity (your true self)
The B in Braving stands for what ; knowing what's OK & Not OK
What is Boundaries
Complete the quote.
" People are Hard to Hate ______. "
What is close up
Complete the line: “Hold hands. With ____. ”
What are strangers
"Strong back” represents these
What are firm values and boundaries
The metaphor Brown uses to describe standing alone in your values
What is "The Wilderness"
The V in BRAVING stands for what ; Keep secrets, no gossip
What is vault
What is get face to face (zoom in)
Name one example of a collective experience Brown says we need.
What is events/sports...
“Soft front” represents this stance
What is openness/vulnerability/compassion
According to Brown, true belonging starts here
What is Self-Trust
The I in BRAVING stands for what ; courage > comfort
What is Integrity
In tough conversations, your goal is to ____, not to win.
What is understand
The two feelings Brown pairs to describe shared spaces
What is joy and pain
True or False: “Soft front” means being a pushover.
What is False (it’s openness with courage, not avoidance)
Belonging doesn’t require us to change who we are... it requires us " to ___ who we are.”
What is be
The G in BRAVING stands for what ; assume best intent
What is Generosity
Brown warns we're doing this (splitting into camps, othering)
These moments widen this capacity in us.
What is empathy
Fill in: the one-word boundary that protects your “back”: “A kind, clear ____.”
What is no
The statement “I’ll say what I believe, respectfully” describes this, not fitting in.
What is true belonging?
Name 5 letters for BRAVING and what they mean
Boundaries ; knowing what's ok and not ok
Reliability ; You do what you say you'll do
Accountability ; You own your mistakes, apologize, and make amends
Vault ; Keep secrets, dont gossip
Integrity ; Choose courage over comfort / What's right over what's fun, fast, or easy
Nonjudgement ; We can talk about how we feel without judgement
Generosity ; Assume the best intent
Name one proximity custom that builds connection beyond agreement
What is a collective experience (events)
Term (from sociology) for the shared surge of energy in group emotion that Brown nods to.
What is collective effervescence
The “wild heart” asks you to hold these two at once.
What are self-truth (authenticity) and connection to others