Resolving Conflicts
What is a conflict?
when two or more people have different ideas or feelings
What is a hook?
something that makes you upset
"you're ugly"
"your mom is dumb"
"your shoes are ugly"
Bobby just kicked a chair and has his arms crossed. What might he be feeling?
Mad, upset, frustrated, annoyed
What are the games we usually play at the beginning of our class?
UNO, Jenga
Someone is yelling at your during recess and it's making you mad. Respond with an I-Message.
How do you remain a free fish? Avoid the hook?
Walk away
Say thank you and agree
Laugh at their joke
"Sure!"
Tom is jumping up and down. He is smiling and laughing. What might Tom be feeling?
excited, happy, joy
What are the animals we talked about when solving conflicts?
Owl, turtle, lion
What is a good, better, best apology?
Good - Sorry
Better - Sorry for hitting you
Best - Sorry for hitting you, next time I will watch where I'm going
What are some calm down strategies you can use if you're feeling upset?
Hand breathing
coloring or Zentangle
reading
playing your favorite game
Alex tells you she dislikes your outfit and thinks its ugly. What are you feeling? What can you do?
Upset, mad, frustrated, annoyed, furious
walk away, say thanks, use and I-message
What are all of the Starr King counselors' names?
Mrs. Allgood
Mrs. Arba
Mrs. Piper
Ms. Jasmin
Ms. JoJo
Show us how to check the temperature when wanting to talk to someone. You can use Ms. JoJo as an example!
Warm - when someone is open to talking to you
Cold - when someone is not ready to talk
Show us 2 ways how you avoid a Hook. Ms. JoJo will help you!
Walk away
Laugh
Say "thank you" and walk away
What is the name of the character we drew in Mrs. Allgood's office the 2nd time we met? What did we draw on the character?
Katsalli
Drew where we felt out anger - hands, legs, angry thoughts, tummy
Ms. JoJo is going to draw a triangle. Fill in the blanks!
Feelings, thoughts, behaviors