Secrets
Passive, Aggressive, Assertive
Safe Adults
Odds and Ends
Vocabulary
100
True or False: You do not need to tell a safe grown-up if someone asks you to keep a secret that is forever and makes you feel bad.
What is False
100
A boy in your class demands that you give him your homework. You agree and give him your homework since you're afraid he'll beat you up if you don't.
What is passive.
100
True or False: Your teddy bear is not a safe person you can go to for help.
What is True
100
At school, another student keeps making fun of you at recess. Who could you tell?
What is parents, school counselor, teacher, or another safe adult.
100
What is an unsafe secret?
What is a secret that is forever, can hurt someone, can get someone in trouble, and/or makes you feel bad.
200
True or False: An example of an unsafe secret is if you saw someone take money from your teacher's desk.
What is true.
200
A student at school keeps bothering you. You look him in the eye and tell him to stop.
What is assertive.
200
If someone asked you to do something that you know is NOT safe, what would you do?
What is "Tell a safe person right away."
200
Fill in the blank: A secret is unsafe if it is _____________ (you cannot tell anyone else).
What is forever.
200
What is a safe secret?
What is something that won't last forever and can't hurt someone.
300
A girl in your class wrote a note to a boy she likes and asked you not to tell him. She added clues in the note and wants to see if he can figure out who wrote it. Is this a safe or unsafe secret?
What is safe.
300
A bully at school asks for your lunch but instead of giving it to him, you stand tall and say "NO." He doesn't listen to you. What would you do next?
What is "say NO again" or "tell a trusted adult."
300
You are walking home from school and a man you do not know offers to give you a ride home. It is raining. What three things would you do?
What is "Say NO in a loud voice, run the other direction, and tell a safe person."
300
Fill in the blank: A secret is unsafe if someone could get in _________.
What is trouble.
300
What does aggressive mean?
What is standing up for yourself while hurting someone else.
400
Your neighbor asks you if she can take pictures of you with your clothes off but tells you that you cannot tell anyone. Is this a safe or unsafe secret?
What is unsafe.
400
Being assertive means what?
What is "Standing up for yourself without hurting others."
400
Name three safe adults (one from school, home, and community).
What is teacher, police officer, parents, grandparents, firefighter, babysitter, etc.
400
What would you do if a friend of yours at school wanted to play an unsafe prank and shoot firecrackers off in the bathroom?
What is "Tell your friend it's a bad idea (be assertive) and/or tell a safe adult."
400
What does passive mean?
What is not standing up for yourself.
500
Your friend tells you that someone touched her in an inappropriate way when she was only five years old. She is now nine. What should you tell her?
What is "Tell a safe grown up she trusts because it is never too late to tell."
500
Your best friend has an older brother named Brian. One night while you are staying at your friend's house, Brian tells you he wants you to smoke a cigarette with him. You tell him, "Okay."
What is passive.
500
A teacher at school keeps touching you in ways that make you feel uncomfortable. When class ends, she tells you to stay after all the other students leave. What would you do?
What is "Tell my mom or dad or another safe person at school."
500
Right before school, a friend opens his bag, shows you a toy gun, and tells you not to tell anyone. What would you do?
What is "You should tell because even though it's a toy gun and it's not real, all guns are banned from school and he asked you not to tell anyone which is a forever secret and that is unsafe."
500
What does disclosure mean?
What is "telling someone."