What's the number one thing to remember when participating in a show, contest, or judging event?
Have fun!
True or false?
Having a limp fish handshake is perfectly acceptable.
False!
First of all, what is a limp fish handshake? (Someone demonstrate!)
Now, why is it important to have a strong handshake?
True or False?
It's ok to ignore the rules of proper grammar when you send emails or post on social media?
False!
Let's discuss why!
The most preferred method of communication is:
a) over the phone
b) in-person
c) through an email
b) In-person
Why?
List 5 things you should NOT do at a 4-H contest, show, or judging event:
Boo, heckle, or insult the competition
Arrive late
Leave early (because you are unhappy with how the event is going)Obstruct the view of others
Leave garbage when you leave
Be disruptive (talk loudly, talk on the phone, etc.)a) Focus on the piece of food in their teeth
b) Look at the squirrel off in the distance
c) Make eye contact
c) Make eye contact!
There's a fine line between making good eye contact and making someone feel uncomfortable! It's ok to glance away now and then, but always go back to looking at the person's eyes.Sending, forwarding, or sharing cruel, negative, or harmful messages/images is called ______________.
Cyber bullying.
People are often braver when they can "hide" behind their computer or phone. You say things you don't really mean and the tone of your message often doesn't come across the way you intended.
Before sending/forwarding/sharing something, ask yourself this:Would you share this with someone if you had to do it in person?
What is body language and why is it important?
Body language is how you communicate through your movements and gestures. (It's not always voluntary! Sometimes you don't even realize you're communicating that way)
Examples!
Remember: posture, hand gestures, distance between you and other people, eye contact, stance, loudness of voice
After an event, you should ________________ the winners.
Congratulate them! We are here to build each other up!
Is it better to be over dressed or under dressed?
In my opinion, over dressed! You never want to get to an event and wish you had dressed a little better. If you find you are overdressed, so what? You have the satisfaction of knowing you looked good and no one will fault you for that!
Emailing, texting, or posting on social media in ALL CAPS implies _________________.
That you're "shouting" your message.
Example: You are composing an email regarding your opinion about something that happened during a show.
To the Beef Barn Superintendent:
I AM EXTREMELY DISSATISFIED WITH THE WAY THE SHOWMANSHIP CLASS WAS HANDLED.
Why is this not an acceptable way to communicate?
True or False:
Sending hand-written thank-you notes is important.
True!
Let's discuss!
What does it mean to accept results (from a show, contest or judging event) with good grace?
Don't lose your temper, swear or use offensive language. You may not agree with the final decision, but you should not make a scene. Remember that decisions can be subjective, meaning they are based on opinion so not everyone is going to agree.
What are two basic manners that help you make a good impression?
What's the golden rule of netiquette?
Treat others as you want to be treated!
Would you want to be the subject of gossip? No! Then make sure you aren't spreading gossip.
Would you want to receive a mean text from someone? No! Then make sure you don't send mean texts!
You should silence your phone before going in to _____________, _____________, and ____________. (List 3 places)
Libraries
Theaters
Churches
Hospitals
Doctors Offices
Why?
True or False:
It is appropriate to express concerns about a judging event or contest in person during the event.
False!
Let's discuss why.
List some other ways to make a good impression.
Introduce yourself
Stand up straight, shoulders back
Smile
Be on time or early
Come prepared
What is one of the most important reasons why you shouldn't share (in a text or on the computer) pictures of yourself that portray you in a bad way?
The images never really go away!
- This can cost you future opportunities (college acceptances, job offers, etc.)
- These can be used negatively by people who wish to do you harm
It's SO important to protect yourself!
What should you remember when you are presenting on a topic (to your club, for a school project, etc.)?
Speak clearly (slow down and make sure you are pronouncing words correctly)
Project your voice relative to the situation
Make eye contact regularly
Don't be afraid to admit when you don't know the answer to a question.
Assume your audience does not have prior knowledge about your subject!
Practice, practice, practice!