Behavior
What is Respect?
Treating someone with kindness and acting in a way that is thoughtful of the other person's feelings/needs.
True or False
If someone else calls me a name, it is their fault if I say it back or push them.
FALSE!
I am still responsible for my actions and words.
True or false
It is a bad thing to walk away from a friend when I am angry.
FALSE!
Sometimes walking away is needed to stay in control of your action/words and calm down.
What is expected?
Something that is a normal, known reaction/expectation.
I went to class on time, but I was talking on a level 4 when I walked into the classroom.
Expected or unexpected?
unexpected
What are the 4 parts of Whole Body Listening that we learned about from "The Biscotti Kid"
Eyes watching, ears listening, voice quiet, body calm.
What does Responsibility mean?
Responsibility is being accountable for your own choices. It also means that you are in control of your words and actions. The consequences of your choices are your responsibility to handle.
Which emotion is bad? (Think really hard)
Trick questions! None of the emotions are bad. Whatever we feel is ok! It is what we do with the feeling that makes the difference!
What is unexpected?
Something that is a surprise or out of the normal reaction/action.
I hurt my friends feelings but I said I was sorry so my actions before don't matter.
Unexpected
True or False
Should we always follow classroom directions.
Explain
Yes
True or False:
If someone calls me a mean name, it is their fault if I say or do something back to them.
False!
No matter any one else's choices, I am in control of my words and actions.
Name 2 things you can do to calm your body and mind?
Some examples: take a walk, take deep breaths, take a break, talk to an adult, Mountain breathing, 5-finger breathing, get a drink of water, etc.
Give me 2 examples of what is Expected.
Ex. Sitting at your desk, following the direction of the adult, smiling and waving at a friend, opening an unlocked door, etc.
Give 3 examples of being respectful
Some examples: Listening when someone is talking, holding the door, using kind words, asking before touching someone's stuff, not going in others bubbles, etc.
How can I be responsible in the classroom?
There are sooooo many ways!
Name 3 feeling words that are not good, bad, sad, or mad.
ex. Frustrated, confused, hurt, bored, excited, scared, anxious, worried, silly, angry, etc.
What are 2 examples of unexpected?
Ex. Yelling in the classroom. throwing chairs, saying mean comments, hitting, pushing, interrupting, etc.
Why does your behavior matter? Give 2-3 reasons why.
Ex. How you treat others, what you say could be hurtful or helpful, behavior can change what you can learn and what others can learn, people won't want to be around you if you make mean choices, etc.
Why is being responsible important? Give 2-3 reasons why.
Ex. Learn how to take care of your stuff, grow your brain by owning up to choices and learning from it, shows others that you are capable, then others aren't blamed with your choices, etc.
Can we control our actions when feeling different emotions? Explain your answer
Yes, we can control what we do with whatever we feel. We don't have to let the emotion have control over us.
Name some emotions that could happen if someone is doing something unexpected.
Ex. Scared, confused, worried, sad, mad, etc.