School
You and your partner cannot agree on an idea for your project. You tell the teacher you will not work with this partner.
Level 4 Behavior that makes others feel annoyed and make it difficult to make or keep a friendship. Flexible thinking helps.
You pick up your date in a car. There are dirty clothes on the seat. You say, "Just toss those onto the floor so you can sit down."
Level 4 behaviors that make others feel annoyed and make it difficult to keep friendships.
Your family is eating dinner at a friend's house. You do not like what is being served for dinner. You move the food around on your plate and don't say anything.
Level 4 Behavior that makes others feel annoyed. This makes it difficult to keep friendships and may experience a negative consequence.
Is it okay to pull out a different book and begin to read when your social studies teacher is talking about something you already know?
No, Level 4 Behaviors that make others feel annoyed and disrespected. This make it difficult to make a good relationship with your teacher.
If you were meeting some friends for a movie and dinner, what three things would you make sure you brought with you?
1, 2, 3 etc.
You are playing volleyball with some classmates, You lose, You say, "Dang! You're good!" to the other player.
Level 2 Behaviors that make others have good thoughts and want to keep friendships
You and your date are at the movies. She says she is thirsty. You tell her where the concession stand is and ask her to buy you a drink too.
Level 4 Behavior that makes others feel annoyed and make it difficult to make or keep friendships
Your friend has just gotten new braces. You tell him, "Wow, I didn't realize they would look so weird."
Level 4 Behaviors that make others feel annoyed and very difficult to keep friendships.
Is it okay to complain that your sister got better gifts than you did on your birthday?
No, Level 4 behaviors that make others feel annoyed and make it difficult to keep relationships
Name one signal that someone does want to talk to you.
Eye contact
Touch your arm
Asks you a question
Smiles
Addresses you with your name
It's a fall dance at your school. You go to the dance and then complain that the music is too loud.
Level 3 Behavior that make others annoyed and you may experience a negative consequence
Level 1-2 Behaviors that are okay or fine and make others proud of you
You run into someone you haven't seen in a while. You notice the person has put on weight so you ask, "When did you get so fat?"
Is it important to make a good impression on your friend's parents? Why
Yes, Level 1 Behavior that makes others want to be around you and they will allow their child to be around you
Name two conversation topics that might make a date feel uncomfortable talking about at the beginning of a relationship.
ex friendships
video games
your favorite topic
etc.
Someone bumps into you while you are going to lunch. They say, "Sorry". You say, "That's okay."
Level 1 Behavior that makes others want to be around you
Someone calls you to ask you if you would like to go out to dinner. You ask who will pay.
Level 3 Behavior makes others feel uncomfortable around you. They will likely avoid hanging out with you.
It is Halloween. You dress up as a teen pop singer. When kids ask you who you are, you say, "I can't believe you don't already know!"
Level 3 Behavior that makes others have weird thoughts about you and it makes them feel uncomfortable.
Is it okay to not respond with an eye or head signal or a voice loud enough to hear when someone says, "hi". Why?
No, Level 3 Behaviors make others have weird thoughts about you and they will likely avoid hanging out with you.
Name three things your parents love about you.
1, 2, 3,
You are hanging out with a group of kids from your school. They are talking about music you know nothing about. You fake being interested and make related comments.
Level 1 A behavior that makes others have good thoughts.
While on a date with someone, you begin to play a game on your cell phone because it just came out and you want to give it a try.
Level 4 Behavior that make others feel annoyed and make it difficult to keep friendships
Someone you don't know asks to borrow $10. You tell the person you don't have any money, even though you do.
Level 2 Behaviors that are fine or okay.
Is it okay to tell kids how smart you are? What level would this be and why?
No, Level 3 behaviors that make others feel annoyed, uncomfortable and may cause them to tease you.
Name three things you could do that would help your chances of getting a second date
1,2,3,