Friendship Boundaries
Is it okay to say no to a friend?
Yes!
True or False: It’s okay to share your password with your best friend.
False.
Your sibling asks before borrowing your stuff.
Green Flag
Are we allowed to change our boundaries with people?
Yes!
True or False — Everyone’s personal space bubble is the same size.
False! It differs between people.
A classmate copies your homework every day. What’s a healthy boundary you can set?
I don't feel comfortable sharing my answers.
Someone is being mean to you online. What can you do?
Block, report them, tell an adult.
Someone says, “If you tell, I won’t be your friend.”
Red Flag.
What’s the difference between a safe secret and an unsafe secret?
Safe secrets are temporary and happy; unsafe secrets make you feel scared, worried, or uncomfortable.
Someone stands very close to you and you feel uncomfortable.
What should you say?
Hey can you please give me some space?
Your friend is trying to pressure you to do something that could get you in trouble. How can you handle it?
Say no, suggest another activity, or remove yourself from the situation.
What information online should you NOT share online?
Don’t share full name, address, school, passwords, or photos without permission.
A friend respects your “no” the first time.
Green Flag.
Name one thing you can do if you notice someone is feeling unsafe or uncomfortable.
Tell a trusted adult, check in with them, help them move away from the situation, or support them in saying “no.”
If someone keeps touching you after you’ve asked them to stop, what should you do next?
Tell a trusted adult.
How can you respect someone's boundaries?
Listen to them, do as they ask (if it's reasonable), try to understand their boundaries the best you can
Why is it important to ask before posting about someone?
Because it’s their information and they deserve privacy if they want it.
When someone listens when you set a boundary and doesn’t get upset.
Green Flag.
Tight stomach, sweaty hands, fast heart, wanting to leave, headache
Why is it important to respect other people’s personal space?
Everyone deserves to feel safe and comfortable. Respecting personal space shows kindness and respect.