Boundaries
What is a boundary?
protecting yourself, people you trust, keep you calm
What is a positive consequence?
Something good happens
Scenario: You're in class and the teacher tells you to stop talking but you were not the only person talking? What would you do?
A) Talk back and say "It was not just me"
B) Stay quiet and keep working, then talk to the teacher after class
C) Roll your eyes and keep talking anyway
B) Stay quiet and keep working, then talk to the teacher after class
Player with the most points loses
100 points
What is a high and low?
High: something good that happened
Low: something bad that happened
What word can a boundary also be known as?
Your bubble
What is a negative consequence?
Something bad happens
Scenario: A teammate keeps telling you what to do and is acting like they are a boss
What would you do?
A) Tell them off so they stop bossing you around
B) Ask them to share ideas and take turns
C) Hit them
B) Ask them to share ideas and take turns
What is bullying?
Repetitively hurting one person or a group of people
Give an example of a bad consequence?
Answer varies: ISS, sent to office
Who are the people that are in your bubble?
Answer varies: family and/or friends
Lose your turn!
Uh oh!
Scenario: A friend starts talking about you behind your back and you heard what they said about you.
What would you do?
A) Talk bad about them to other people
B) Go straight to them and start yelling
C) Ask to talk privately and tell them how it made you feel
C) Ask to talk privately and tell them how it made you feel
How does bullying affect people?
Makes them feel alone and scared
What do you do to stay calm?
Answer varies: talk to a friend or take deep breaths
Give player with least amount of points
400 points
What is a consequence?
What happens right after you do something, it can be good or bad
Scenario : Someone bumps into you in the hallway and says “Watch where you are going”.
What would you do?
A) Say something back to them and shove them
B) Take a deep breath and walk away
C) Say “hey it was an accident” and stay calm
C) Say “hey it was an accident” and stay calm
What can you do to stop bullying?
Answer varies: speak up when its safe, support classmates, tell a trusted adult, be kind
What is something you have learned and will you use in the future?
Answer varies: think about all my options, yes because it will help me make good decisions or my bubble, yes because I am aware of the people in my life that are allowed in it
What happens if someone "pops your bubble"?
Answer varies: get angry, frustrated, upset
Scenario: You ask for a break when you feel angry. Would this result in a good or bad consequence?
Good!
Next time I have to make a choice I will try to ______. To receive all points you must give a "because..." after your answer
What are the 4 ways of bullying (we discussed)?
Additional 100 points if you can tell us what each of them mean
Physical- damage to body, verbal- with words, social- try to harm someone's reputation, and cyber- online
What is a coping mechanism?
Something used to regulate yourself or calm yourself down, find peace