Kelso's Choices
What are the names of the 3 frogs, and the turtle?
Kelso, Kyle, Lily, and Kelsey
What is a small problem that you can solve on your own?
What is bullying?
Unwanted and agressive behavior, that is repeated
What does empathy mean?
Understanding and sharing the feelings of another person.
Why do words have power?
They can influence how others feel and act.
What are Kelso's Choices use for?
To solve small problems
Give an example of a big problem that might require help from an adult.
Example: Someone is hurt on the playground and needs medical attention.
What are the four types of bullying?
1. Verbal, 2. Social/Emotional, 3. Physical, 4. Cyber
Why is empathy important in friendships?
It helps us connect with and support our friends.
Give an example of a positive word and how it can make somone feel.
Example: "Great job!" can make someone feel proud and appreciated.
Make a deal, Talk it Out, Tell Them to Stop
Why is it important to distinguish between small and big problems?
Example: It helps us know when to seek help and when to try solving it ourselves.
What is the role of the Follower in the Bullying Circle?
Take an active part, but do not usually start it.
How can you show empathy to someone who is upset?
What should you do if you accidentally say something hurtful?
Apologize sincerely and try to make it right.
If you see one of your friends playing with someone else at recess, or sitting with someone else at lunch, what should you NOT do?
Yell at them, ignore them, talk about them behind their backs, etc.
What should you do if your're unsure whether a problem is small or big?
Ask a trusted adult for advice.
Examples: Parents, Guardians, Teachers, School Counselor, etc.
What is the role of the Disengaged Onlooker in the Bullying Circle?
Are aware of what is happening but may feel that it is none of their business.
Give an example of an empathetic statement.
Example: "I understand how you feel, and I'm here for you."
How can choosing kind words help you make friends?
It shows others that you are friendly and respectful.
What are all of Kelso's Choices?
1. Go to another game, 2. Talk it out, 3. Share and Take turns, 4. Ignore it, 5. Walk Away, 6. Tell Them to Stop, 7. Apologize, 8. Make A Deal, 9. Wait and Cool Off
How can solving small problems on your own help you in the future?
It builds confidence and problem-solving skills.
Why is it important to stand up against bullying?
It helps stop the behavior and supports the person being bullied.
How can practicing empathy make our school a better place?
Example: It can foster a caring and supportive environment, and community.
What is one way to use your words to help someone feel better?