Effective Teens
Think Win-Win
What is Habit 4?
The act of staying calm, even if they feel angry.
What is to Be Proactive?
Something you want to achieve or accomplish.
What is a goal?
These are the most important things that take priority over all other things in our lives.
What are Big Rocks?
Win/Win, Win/Lose, Lose/Win, Lose/Lose
What are the 4 Paradigms of Habit 4?
Be Proactive
What is Habit #1?
Acting in response to a situation rather than creating or controlling it.
What is to be Reactive?
Living to achieve certain dreams or goals.
What is Purpose filled Living?
The process of deciding on and arranging things in advance one month at a time.
What is Planning?
Think “abundance.” The idea that there is enough to go around for everyone.
What is Win/Win?
Begin with the End in Mind
What is Habit #2
A behavioral pattern that is done repeatedly that can either influence you positively or negatively.
What is a habit?
A statement acts as a compass, guiding daily decisions to ensure they align with long-term goals.
What is a Personal Mission Statement?
The graphic organizer that helps you to prioritize your daily activities into four quadrants.
What is the Time Matrix?
People that allow themselves to be walked on with the excuse of being the “’peacemaker” fall under this paradigm.
What is Lose/Win?
Put First Things First
What is Habit #3?
Being proactive and taking ownership for one's life and actions.
What is taking responsibility?
The idea of visualizing the outcome of a project, meeting, or a personal life milestone.
What is a Mental Creation?
This zone represents things, people, and activities that you know and enjoy.
What is the Comfort Zone?
This is the idea that there isn't enough to go around. It causes people to hoard resources, compete rather than collaborate, and feel that others' success takes away from their own.
What is the Scarcity Mentality/Mindset?
A set of "thought patterns" or "way of thinking" that one holds.
What is a Paradigm?
A three-stage framework representing personal growth from dependence to independence, and finally to interdependent synergy.
What is the Maturity Continuum?
The principle that all things are created twice: first mentally (vision), then physically (action).
What is Begin with The End in Mind?
To determine the order for dealing with items or tasks based on their relative importance.
What is to Prioritize?
The strategy of coming up with something that is better than either party’s original idea, rather than settling or compromising.
What is a Third alternative or the Higher Way?