Personal Bank Account
So obsessed with getting good grades that they neglect friendships, family, hobbies, etc in order to study.
What is school-centered?
Says, "I'm responsible for my own happiness or unhappiness." Thinks before they act.
What is Be Proactive?
Strength to say "yes" to your most important things and the strength to say "no" to the less important things and to peer pressure.
What is habit 3, put first things first?
These take away from your relationships and harms them. Tends to be like stones and never goes away.
What is a withdrawal?
This attitude says, "If I'm going down, then you're going down with me."
What is think lose-lose?
This type of center is forever breaking up and getting back together; they also quit hanging out with friends and anyone else.
What is boyfriend/girlfriend-centered?
Makes choices based on impulse or emotions
What is reactive?
This habit includes setting goals and planning ahead
What is habit 2, begin with the end in mind?
You have to continually make these in order to keep your account in the positive.
What are deposits?
This attitude says, "I'm going to do well and everyone else is going down."
What is win-lose?
The three habits that are a private victory because they deal with you and your character
What are be proactive, begin with the end in mind, and put first things first?
Give an example of proactive language or statement
What is I didn't get my AR points because I put off reading until the last week of the quarter. I could have started reading sooner but just didn't.
This time quadrant person puts thing off until the last minute.
What is the procrastinator?
These tend to evaporate.
What are deposits?
The attitude we want to work towards having all of the time. Also the name of habit #4.
Think win-win
Most stable, immovable, unshakable foundation you can build upon
What is principle-centered?
Believes that everyone has "it in for them" and the world owes them something.
What is the victimitis virus?
This person tries to please other people; quadrant is filled with important things to other people but not necessarily to you.
What is the yes-person?
Who do you have a relationship bank account (RBA) with?
What is everyone you meet?
the way you see something, your frame of reference, your point of view
What is paradigm or perception?
The one thing we can control
What is "how we respond to what happens to us."?
This quadrant is made up of things that are important but not urgent. This is the quadrant we want to spend most of our time in.
What is the prioritizer?
This will determine how successful you are in your career and how happy you will be in the future.
What is your ability to get along with others?