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Personal Bank Account
Habit 1
Habits 2-3
Relationship Bank Account
Habits 4-7
100
So obsessed with getting good grades that they neglect friendships, family, hobbies, etc in order to study.
What is school-centered?
100
Says, "I'm responsible for my own happiness or unhappiness." Thinks before they act.
What is Be Proactive?
100
Strength to say "yes" to your most important things and the strength to say "no" to the less important things and to peer pressure.
What is habit 3, put first things first?
100
These take away from your relationships and harms them. Tends to be like stones and never goes away.
What is a withdrawal?
100
This attitude says, "If I'm going down, then you're going down with me."
What is think lose-lose?
200
This type of center is forever breaking up and getting back together; they also quit hanging out with friends and anyone else.
What is boyfriend/girlfriend-centered?
200
Makes choices based on impulse or emotions
What is reactive?
200
This habit includes setting goals and planning ahead
What is habit 2, begin with the end in mind?
200
You have to continually make these in order to keep your account in the positive.
What are deposits?
200
This type of listening is repeating back in your own words what the other person is saying and feeling.
What is mirroring or genuine listening?
300
Give an example of proactive language or statement
What is I didn't get my AR points because I put off reading until the last week of the quarter. I could have started reading sooner but just didn't.
300
This time quadrant person puts thing off until the last minute.
What is the procrastinator?
300
These tend to evaporate.
What are deposits?
300
The definition of this habit is "work together" and "teamwork."
What is synergy?
400
Most stable, immovable, unshakable foundation you can build upon
What is principle-centered?
400
Believes that everyone has "it in for them" and the world owes them something.
What is the victimitis virus?
400
This person tries to please other people; quadrant is filled with important things to other people but not necessarily to you.
What is the yes-person?
400
Who do you have an RBA with?
What is everyone you meet?
500
the way you see something, your frame of reference, your point of view
What is paradigm or perception?
500
The one thing we can control
What is "how we respond to what happens to us."?
500
This quadrant is made up of things that are important but not urgent. This is the quadrant we want to spend most of our time in.
What is the prioritizer?
500
This attitude says, "I want my way and I may get ahead at the expense of others."
What is win-lose?