LIB Parenting
Parents who are very inconsistent about family rules can make children feel___ about what is right and wrong.
Confused
July 6th,
"The chief activator of our defects has been self-centered __"
Fear
The first parenting taboo talked about in the Ted Talk. The feeling when you first see your child.
1. You can't say it wasn't love at first sight.
(or that you didn't immediately feel connected to your child- something along those lines)
This movie has been made 4 different times from 1937 to most recently in 2018. A musician helps a young singer find fame as age and alcoholism send his own career into a downward spiral.
"A Star is Born"
share the duties of raising (a child) (used especially of parents who are separated or not in a relationship).
co-parenting
Too Harsh Parents:
"parents who are not necessarily strict but do have outbursts in which they scream at, embarrass, or harshly criticize their children do not create a healthy relationship with their children."
The LIB identified one major impact this can have on children.
Self-esteem.
(will accept -Self-worth, identity)
July 7
. . primarily fear that we would lose something we already possessed or would fail to get something we demanded. Living upon a basis of unsatisfied demands, we were in a state of continual disturbance and ____.
Frustration
The second parenting taboo
Feelings you may have after having a baby
#2 You can’t talk about how lonely having a baby can be
This 2012 film about a commercial airline pilot Whip Whitaker who has a problem with drugs and alcohol, though so far he's managed to complete his flights safely. His luck runs out when a disastrous mechanical malfunction sends his plane hurtling toward the ground.
Flight
Everything you put before your recovery you ___ .
Lose
Researchers have found that physical punishment is an especially poor way to get children to behave in a positive and healthy way. In fact, physical punishment generally promotes:
LIB named 5 consequences. Name ONE.
fear, anxiety, depression, emotional turmoil, and behavioral problems.
July 6:
"I have found a Higher Power who does not want me to live in fear and, as a result, the experience of A.A. in my life is __ and joy."
Freedom
Third parenting taboo talked about in the video:
Difficult experience many mothers have and feel they can't talk about
3. You can’t talk about your miscarriage
This film from 2000 depicts four characters affected by drug addiction and how it alters their physical and emotional states. Their addictions cause them to become imprisoned in a world of delusion and desperation. This American psychological drama film directed by Darren Aronofsky and starring Ellen Burstyn, Jared Leto, Jennifer Connelly, and Marlon Wayans.
Requiem for a Dream
expectations are premeditated ___
resentments
No matter what approach to parenting you use, there are a few basics that will help to form the foundation for healthy children. These include expressing love, setting rules, and____.
Showing sensitivity
(will accept sensitivity)
Man in the arena quote:
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose __ is marred by dust...."
Face
Fourth parenting taboo:
The speakers shared a graph of this to demonstrate this of parents throughout parenting.
#4 You can’t say your average happiness has declined
(will accept happiness over time- something along those lines)
A hard-drinking New York journalist (Sandra Bullock) takes her reputation as the life and soul of the party too far when she knocks over her sister's wedding cake and crashes the bridal limousine. When a court orders her into rehab for a month, she initially refuses, but eventually she begins to take her substance abuse seriously.
28 Days
Parents who are very strict and bossy often don’t allow their children to speak up, and they may use severe punishments, such as spankings or beatings. As a result, their children are either ___ or ___.
Very shy or very aggressive.
Because children are young and are still learning, they will make many mistakes. They will not always reach the goals set for them or the goals they set for themselves. Thus, parents should praise children’s __ not just their ___.
Praise children's efforts not just their successes.
Praising sincere efforts increases the likelihood that children will try again and eventually achieve their goals.
"who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no __ without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds"
Effort
Bonus! what was the last parenting taboo the speakers talked about?
Never working together
This Martin Scorcese 2013 film based on the true story, from the main character's rise to a millionare stock-broker to his fall involving crime, corruption, the federal government, and severe substance use.
The Wolf of Wall Street
___ also referred to as personal exceptionalism, is the false belief that your experiences with substance abuse are unlike those of other anyone else. Essentially people with a history of addiction often want to think that they are somehow different from other people with addiction and substance abuse problems.
Terminally Unique