Peer Pressure
Comparisons
Gaslighting/Mindsets
Stress & Anxiety
Previous SEL Topics
100

What word best defines peer pressure?

What is influence.

100
Instead of comparing ourselves, what should we choose to do instead?

What is connect with people (connection).

100

Someone with a growth mindset ebraces challenges but someone with a fixed mindset does what when faced with a challenge?

What is avoids challenges.

100

When faced with too much stress changes happen _____________, _______________, and _____________.

What is Physical, Emotional/Cognitive, and Behavioral.

100

What are three unhealthy relationship character traits?

What is Intensity, Volatility, Belittling, Avoiding Responsibility, Possessiveness, Manipulation, Isolation, Sabotage, Guilting, and/or Betrayal.

200

What does explicit negative peer pressure mean?

What is when peer pressure directly affects someone's behavior, words, and the desire to fit in. 

200

What are the two types of way we compare ourselves to other people?

What is "upward social comparison," and "downward social comparison."


200

Gaslighting is a method of control stemming from which unhealthy character trait?

What is manipulation.

200

True or False...A little stress can be healthy?

What is true.
200

What are three healthy character traits when building friendships?

What is Fun, Healthy Conflict, Trust, Honesty, Comfortable Pace, Independence, Respect, Equality, Kindness, and/or Taking Responsibility.

300

At what age does peer pressure start to become a social factor?

What is when children start to notice each other, between Kindergarten to First Grade.

300

When we compare ourselves to other people, what are the two things we are trying to do?

What is "standing out" while also trying to "fit in."

300

What are three characteristics of someone with a growth mindset?

Embraces challenges, persistent, effort leads to mastery, learn from criticism, and success leads to lessons of inspiration.

300

What is it called when someone goes out of their way to avoid an intense fear?

What is Phobia.

300

What does "having values" mean?

What are character traits, people, places, or things that are important to each specific person. 

400

Who are three groups of children that are more likely to be influenced by peer pressure?

What are children more susceptible to peer pressure, children who don't have a lot of friends, younger children hanging out with older children, and children being perceived as popular. 

400

Downward social comparison leaves people feeling...

What is superior and/or depressed.

400

"That's not what I said at all! You are lying," is an example of what type of gaslighting?

What is denial.

400

What can anxiety interfere with if it's too frequent and not treated?

What are your goals and your quality of life.

400

How would you define what boundaries are?

What is setting personal limits on what you are willing to do or say.
500

In the Fire Drill clip (from The Office), what type of peer pressure did we witness?

What is negative implicit peer pressure.

500

Long term comparison can lead towards feeling...

What is shame, fear, and sadness.

500

A person that is gaslights is trying to chip away at a person's______________ and _______________.

What is self-confidence and wellbeing.

500
If anxiety is avoided, what cycle does it lead too?

What is anxiety, avoidance, relief, and then intensification.

500

What are three things that can cause conflict?

What are different perspectives, culture, greed, relationships, or "inner" conflict.