Stranger Safety
It Doesn't Matter Who It Is
Protect Yourself Rules
Trusted Adults
Know When to Tell
100

What is a stranger?

Who is somebody you do not know.

100

Only YOU choose who...

what is enters your personal space bubble.

100

The space you allow others to enter is your...

What is, personal space bubble or boundaries.

100

Define a "trusted adult."

What is, an adult that you can report to and feel safe with.


100

Yelling and mean words CAN be considered....

What is abuse.
200

Most strangers are ______

What is "nice or kind."

200

Unsafe touches are....

what is never allowed.
200

Which protect yourself rule reminds us that even friends or relatives are not allowed to enter our space bubble if we tell them not to?

What is, It Doesn't Matter Who It Is rule.
200

List three trusted adults at Montclair.

Who are: will vary

200

Define secret.

What is: something kept or unknown from others.

300

You should never....

What is, never go anywhere with a stranger.

300

Examples of unsafe touches are...

What are touches to the bathing suit area, hitting, biting, and kicking.

300

The space directly around us it called...

What is "Intimate space" or "personal space."


300

List three trusted adults outside of Montclair.

Answers will vary:

-Parents

-Coach

-Priest/Pastor/Rabbi


300

What is an example of a "safe" secret?

Answers will vary:

-A surprise party.

-A gift.

-A "white lie."

400

A grown-up will never need....

What is help from a child.

400

A grown-up will NEVER ask

what is a child to keep unsafe touches a secret.

400

The space where we're most comfortable  hanging out with friends or talking in groups is....

What is, your "social space."

400

List two ways to tell someone that you do not like them in your private space POLITELY?

What are, lists will vary: 

Tell them to please stop. Tell them, stop now. Walk away. Tell the person I don't like that!

400

What are some ways that you could tell a trusted adult about abuse WITHOUT speaking or using words?

What is: write a note or drawing a picture.

500

Kidnapping of a child is....

What is "extremely rare."

500

If someone tries to hurt you or touch you in an unsafe way....

What is, it's okay to make a scene, yell, and run away. You will never get in trouble.
500

It is okay to tell someone in a _____________ way to stop if you do not like what they are saying or doing to you in your personal space.

What is, a "forceful" or "strong" way.

500

A trusted adult will NEVER...

Answers will vary:

Ask you to keep a secret.

Not respect your personal/intimate space.

500

In rare cases, if we are being hurt by someone at home and don't think we can find a trusted adult, you should...

What is: call 911