True/false
True or false- Healthy attachment is a strong and positive bond between family members?
True!
Provide an example of a time you bonded with a family member.
Answers vary!
(ex. shopping, going out to eat, coloring, family dinner, etc.)
Ex. All family members are there, tone is calm, everyone is able to contribute, agenda is going as planned, etc.
Which Disney film features the hit song "Let It Go"?
Frozen
True or False- Parents and children do not need to prioritize bonding to have a good relationship?
False,
Bonding is an important part of relationship building.
Provide an example of a time your family conducted a family meeting.
What worked? What didn't?
Answers may vary.
How will you know if a family meeting is not going well?
Ex. emotions get too high, attacking, yelling, shutting down, etc.
What is the name of the demigod who accompanies Maona on her journey?
Hint: he sings "what can I say except 'you're welcome'"
Maui
True or false- You are more likely to trust someone who you've bonded with and feel attached to?
True!
Provide an example of a time you felt heard in your family.
Answers vary.
What is reframing?
A process of shifting mindset. Often from negative to positive. (can be used in family meeting)
Ex. a mother's repeated questioning of her daughter's behavior after a date can be seen as genuine caring and concern rather than that of a non-trusting parent.
What is the name of the Walt Disney mascot?
Hint: he is not a rat, he's a... with big ears
Mickey Mouse!
True or false- Family meetings can include time for problem solving?
True!
Scheduled family meetings are a perfect time to discuss concerns and problem solve.
What makes someone easy to talk to?
Answers vary per person.
What are some personal "triggers" that upset you when trying to conduct meetings?
Answers vary
What 2002 Disney animated film set in Hawaii?
Lilo and Stitch
True or false- Attacking is the first step to problem solving?
False.
Bringing forth a concern in a healthy manner as a part of the family meeting agenda does not have to take an aggressive or attacking tone.
Provide an example of a time you felt hurt by a family member.
How did this impact you?
Answers vary.
Where can you go and what can you do if you become too upset to continue the family meeting?
Inform family with "exit and wait statement" then excuse yourself to designated area. Establish when you will revisit.
What other Disney film besides "Sleeping Beauty" involves a sleeping princess under an evil spell?
Snow White.