Tactics
Continuum/tactic
Responsible thinking
Parenting
Irresponsible thinking/barriers
100
I am changing the subject.
What is Diversion?
100
Being unreliable, late, lieing and lazy.
What is Generally irresponsible?
100
Opposite of Fear of losing face, works toward win/win relationship.
What is Courage over fear?
100
Passive, inconsistent, allows child to regulate own activities, home life is chaotic, uncontrollable, accepting of youth's irresponsible behaviors, little consequences, gives up, does nothing.
What is the Bystander?
100
Opposite of Self Respect, unreceptive, not self critical.
What is Superior self image?
200
Telling others what they want to hear.
What is Casing people out?
200
Committing crimes, plotting criminal activities.
What is Generally Extreme?
200
Opposite of Superior self image, sees self no better or worse than others.
What is Self respect?
200
Reasonable, flexible, attempt to direct youth's activities, home life is orderly, consistent, incentives, consequences, negotiation.
What is the Guide?
200
Opposite of Courage over fear, does not tolerate criticism.
What is Fear of losing face?
300
I reveal nothing.
What is Silence?
300
You are the problem.
What is Attack?
300
Opposite of Closed thinking, considerate of others.
What is Open Channel?
300
Uncompromising, strict, attempt to control youth's behavior according to absolute standard, home life is tense, oppressive, yelling, threatening, bribing.
What is the Boss?
300
Opposite of Daily Effort, no obligation to others, says I can't when means I won't.
What is Reckless attitude?
400
Everyone does it.
What is Generalization.
400
Going to school, fulfilling obligations, coming home on time.
What is Generally responsible.
400
Opposite of Reckless attitude, receptive to posiitve change, fulfilling obligations.
What is Daily effort?
400
Behavior that happens over and over again, not incidental.
What is Patterned Behaviors.
400
Opposite of Personal Accountability, feels worthless/helpless, doesn't recognize harm to others.
What is Victim Role?
500
It's not a big deal.
What is Minimizing?
500
Feeling successful because crimes have gone undetected, unreseptive to responsible alternatives and correction.
What is Generally Arrestable.
500
Opposite of Victim role, critical of own thoughts/behaviors/triggers, controls feelings.
What is Personal Accountability?
500
What can parents do about irresponsible behaviors?
What is Hold Youth Accountable?
500
Opposite of Open Channel, thinks other's views are worthless, views others as possessions.
What is Closed Thinking?