Passive Possum
Assertive Elephant
Aggressive Alligator
100
What does it mean to be PASSIVE?
1) Speak up and yell
2) Stay quiet and agree with others
3) To say no all the time
2) STAY QUIET AND AGREE WITH OTHERS
100
What does it mean to be ASSERTIVE?
1) Sharing your needs in a kind way
2) Yelling at others
3) Ignoring feelings
1) SHARING YOUR NEEDS IN A KIND WAY
100
What is an example of being AGGRESSIVE?
1) Talking calmly.
2) Yelling and screaming at someone.
3) Walking away quietly.
2) YELLING AND SCREAMING AT SOMEONE
200
Can you give an example of a SMALL PROBLEM when you might stay quiet?
1) When you don't like a movie
2) When you lost a game
3) Your friend picks a restaurant you're okay with
3) YOUR FRIEND PICKS A RESTAURANT YOU'RE OKAY WITH
200
Someone is taking your book without asking. What would you say to be ASSERTIVE?
1) Here take it.
2) Stop it right now!
3) I'm using it right now. You can borrow it later.
3) I'M USING IT RIGHT NOW YOU CAN BORROW IT LATER.
200
Someone is being mean to you and won't stop. How can you AGGRESSIVELY hold your boundary?
1) Laugh it off.
2) Let them keep being mean to you.
3) Say strongly, "That is making me uncomfortable, stop it!"
3) SAY STRONGLY, "THAT IS MAKING ME UNCOMFORTABLE, STOP IT!"
300
Why is it okay to let others make a choice sometimes?
1) Because you are okay with both choices
2) Because you like win
3) Because you feel strongly about it
1) BECAUSE YOU ARE OKAY WITH BOTH CHOICES
300
You need help with your work. How can you be ASSERTIVE?
1) I don't understand. Can you help me please?
2) I will sit here and do nothing.
3) This is so hard! Ugh!
1) I DON'T UNDERSTAND CAN YOU HELP ME PLEASE?
300
When is it okay to make your voice LOUDER?
1) When you want attention
2) When it is an emergency
3)When you are tired
2) WHEN IT IS AN EMERGENCY
400
How can you avoid a hug if you are PASSIVE, if you don't want one?
1) Stand far away
2) Hug back anyway
3) Smile and say thank you
1) STAND FAR AWAY
400
Someone is being mean/unexpected to your friend. What can you say that is ASSERTIVE?
1) I don't care.
2) That's not funny, please stop.
3) Walk away and ignore it.
2) THAT'S NOT FUNNY PLEASE STOP.
400
If someone grabs your arm to hurt you, how can you ASSERTIVELY advocate for yourself?
1) Stand still
2) Sit down on the ground
3) Move away and yell, "No, give me space!"
3) MOVE AWAY AND YELL, "NO GIVE ME SPACE!"
500
I will show PASSIVE ADVOCACY if I don't like to...
1) Be kind
2) Play with my friends
3) Have disagreements
3) HAVE DISAGREEMENTS
500
You are starting to feel angry, and need a break. How can you ASSERTIVELY advocate for yourself?
1) Yell and scream.
2) Just sit there and keep getting angrier.
3) Say, "I feel angry, I need a break please"
3) SAY, "I FEEL ANGRY I NEED A BREAK PLEASE"
500
If I am AGGRESSIVE towards my friends, this might make them feel:
1) Happy
2) Excited
3) Hurt
3) HURT