Talking to a PNM
introduce yourself, smile, and ask an open ended question!
What are our Philanthropys
boys, booze, barack, bible, and b*tch
should any digital devices be on your person while recruiting?
No, unless you have specific circumstances
A PNM ask how she can be involved in service projects
Your sitting at a table and realize you have been talking a little bit more than the PNM what should you do?
Shift the conversation back to the PNM by asking her a question then getting her to elaborate on her answer.
what is University Community, Community at Large, Mental Health, President Project, and Members
A PNM says they have seen a few members of the chapter at Living Hope's HOCO is this a bad thing?
No! Even tho Bible is technically a part of the 5 B's if a PNM brings it up do not shoot them down!
If you see another sister out at a Frat Party during the week of recruitment what should you do
Report it to Jada or Hayley!
(then report yourself cause you shouldnt be out either!)
A PNM ask which fraternity throws the best parties on campus
what is a red flag
A PNM tells you she is really shy and is worried she wont fit in because everyone seems outgoing, what should you respond?
Reassure her that everyone in our chapter is different, and while it may not seem like there are any shy girls. That many girls come into the chapter shy and open up as time goes on.
What do we do if we do NOT know the answer to something?
What is ask a member of exec or an older active!
If a PNM brings up how she is super excited to be paired with a fraternity for homecoming how can u redirect a conversation
Bring up that we are paired with NPHC and IFC groups and it is such an amazing time to bond and grow with you sisters!
Why are we not supposed to use a "you" pronoun during recruitment
Because it can come across as bid promising
A pnm says, "Do I have to do service, or can i just focus on the social events"
red flag!
You are having a great conversation with a PNM but your sister comes along because it is time to bump. What should you do?
Polietly wrap up the conversation but dont cut her off and says, "it was so great to meet you. this is my sister - -, we were just talking about -insert topic-.
How much are dues? What is the protocol around dues waviers?
what is 225
we tell PNMs about payment plans NOT dues waviers
Redirct the conversation and then make a mental note to write that in your comment form!
let the pnm sit down first and then sit on the floor
A PNM says "I want to join a sorority where i can build my resume, make friends, and give back thru service"
Biege flag
A PNM says "Im not sure if i belong here," what do u say?
Ask her feel seen with things like "recruitment can be a very overwhelming time so i understand why u feel that way!" Then ask her what made her interested in coming to recruitment and what she feels she may be interested in.
What are the NEW member requirements? (hint: I have 5 main ones listed)
What is Scrapbook page, 15 service hours, test, weekly meetings, carrying around ophia
A PNM brings up Taylor Swift and you say "oh yea i love her did you see that her and travis kelce got married at MSG". Is Hayley going to strike you down?
NO!
As long as you are not sitting down chatting about your boyfriend, situationship, or the hottest frat guy on campus for the entirety of recruitment I will not!
no! because you just met her! we also do not judge someone based on their apperances.
A PNM asks "What happens if I do not complete my service hours" (this may be a trick question hint hint nudge nudge"
It depends!