General Social Skills
TRUE OR FALSE: It is ok to look into someone's belongings when they aren't looking. Explain your answer.
What is, FALSE. It is never ok to go through someone else's belongings, especially when they aren't looking.
Why is it important to treat other people with kindness?
What is, We should treat people the way we want to be treated, it is the right thing to do.
If your teacher has upset you by something they have said or done, who should you talk to about it first?
What is, if you are upset by a something a teacher has said or done and you aren't sure about what to say you should ask to speak to a trusted staff member or an administrative person. After speaking to a trusted person you should ask your teacher if they are able to talk with you at some point during the school day. You should explain your feelings using "I" statements.
True or false: When playing cards or a board game, it is alright to be scream when you lose.
What is, False. It's okay to feel angry inside but not ok to scream. It is important to be a good sport and congratulate the winner. Remember it is just a game.
Name 3 things we can do when we're upset:
What is, you can walk away, breathing exercises, talk to someone, and write in your journal. Answers may vary.
Why is it important to wear deodorant and shower?
What is, so that we don't smell bad/offensive. If you smell bad, others may not have positive thoughts or want to spend time with you.
What should I do before walking away from someone you are having a conversation with?
What is, You should make a comment to close out the conversation, then end the conversation.
What is one way that you deal with a person who is not saying kind things to you?
What is, you can tell them to stop, let them know that what they are saying is mean, you can also remind yourself that you do not have to listen or believe what they say.
Tell a teacher if you are having trouble dealing with the situation on your own!
True or false: It is okay to ignore people you aren't friends with.
What is, FALSE. It is not socially acceptable to ignore people you are not friends with.
You are not expected to be friends with everyone, but it is expected that you show kindness and respect to your peers regardless of whether or not you are friends.
Is exercise a good coping skills? Why or why not?
What is, Yes. It reduces stress hormones, increases happiness, and increases mindfulness.
What qualities do you think make someone a “trusted adult”?
What is, trusted adults make children feel safe, are good listeners, and are helpful when the child is facing a challenge. It’s normal that this group of trusted adults may change as children mature and age.
Why is personal space important?
What is, Invading someone's personal space can make them feel uncomfortable or threatened, it's polite to give someone their space.
True or false: If person you don't know well asks for personal information, its okay to give it to them?
What is, False. It is important to keep private information private, especially if you don't know the person.
Why can chores be important?
What is, they teach responsibility, time management, teamwork, and problem-solving. Also, helping the family is important.
True or False: When you finish your work at school you can make all the noise you want.
What is, FALSE. You need to respect everyone and wait quietly for everyone to finish their work.
True or False: It's OK to take other people's things.
What is, False: You should always ask if you can use something that doesn't belong to you.
What does it mean to "follow up," with someone?
What is, Asking them related questions to something they have told you in the past.
When you enter a room to ask someone a question, what's the first thing you should do?
Then what do you need to wait for?
What is, I should say something to get their attention and
wait for them to look at me.
TRUE OR FALSE: If your friends is talking about trains it is okay to start talking about pizza.
What is, FALSE. It is important to stay on topic until that piece of the conversation has ended.
Why is it important for others to have positive thoughts about you?
What is, if they have positive thoughts, they will want to spend more time with you, and will like being around you.
What are 3 signs that someone is not a good friend or person to be around?
What is,
1. They engage in unsafe activities.
2. They do not take your feelings or experiences into consideration.
3. They treat others disrespectfully.
How do you politely disagree with someone?
What is, You express your opinion calmly, acknowledge their perspective, and focus on finding common ground.
What is it called when you try to understand someone else's feelings?
What is empathy.
How do we show respect in school?
What is, by following directions, using kind words, treating our environment and materials correctly, and keeping hands and feet to yourself.
What are physical signs that someone may be angry/upset and needs a break?
What is, raising their voice, pacing the room, being restless in their seat, and crying.