Definitions
Steps/ Components
Self-Respect Effectiveness
DEAR MAN
GIVE
100

Signs of anger that you can see or hear; signs of anger that you can't see or hear

What are overt and covert cues?

100

FREEBIE!

FREEBIE!

100

The word in the blank: It's important in self-respect effectiveness skills to be a person worthy of ________.

What is 'respect'?

100
The E in DEAR MAN

What is express?

100

The E in GIVE

What is use an easy manner?

200

The definition of aggressive and nonaggressive beliefs

What are: people are acting an aggressive way towards us vs. people are not acting an aggressive way towards us?

200

The ABC's

What are the antecedant/activating event, behavior, and consequence?

200

The word in the blank: Respect from others comes naturally when you respect ___________.

What is 'yourself'?

200
The D in DEAR MAN

What is describe?

200

The G in GIVE

What is be gentle?

300

2 different kinds of cues

What are thinking/cognitive and body cues?

300

2 qualities of good apologies

What are being genuine and only speaking about one's own actions?

300

The first skill in self-respect effectiveness

What is 'be fair to yourself and others'?

300

The R in DEAR MAN

What is reinforce?

300

The I in GIVE

What is act interested?

400

2 kinds of triggers

What are direct and indirect triggers?

400

The 4 components in the reminding sequence

What are stop, press pause, kickback, and remind?

400

The second skill in self-respect effectiveness

What is 'remember your values and act accordingly'?

400

The 2nd A in DEAR MAN

What is appear confident?

400

The V in GIVE

What is validate?

500

The difference between "good teasing" and "bad teasing"

What is the intention to harm another person in some way?

500

The problem-solving steps

What are: what's the hassle? What are my options? What is my penalty/consequence? What action will I take? Self-evaluation. Feedback/How did it work?

500

The third skill in self-respect effectiveness

What is 'be truthful with others'?

500

The N in DEAR MAN

What is negotiate?

500

The word in the blank: GIVE skills are ______________ effectiveness skills

What is 'relationship'?