Red Flags
When someone expresses very extreme feelings and over-the-top behavior that feels overwhelming. Things are getting too intense if you feel like someone is rushing the pace of the relationship (comes on too strong, too fast) and seems obsessive about wanting to see you and be in constant contact.
What is intensity
You respect and value your partner, and express gratitude often.
What is appreciation
Refers to personal space and physical touch. Healthy physical boundaries include an awareness of what’s appropriate, and what’s not, in various settings and types of relationships (hug, shake hands, or kiss?).
What is physical boundaries
If your partner does not want to add you on his social media or keeps his profiles private without a valid reason, then he has something to hide.
What is secrecy
What do you do if your partner is flirting behind your back?
Any answer as long as its appropriate and you answer :)
When someone is jealous to a point where they try to control who you spend time with and what you do. While jealousy is a normal human emotion, it becomes unhealthy when it causes someone to control or lash out at you. This means getting upset when you text or hang out with people they feel threatened by, wrongly accusing you of flirting or cheating, or even going so far as to stalk you.
What possessiveness
You take your partner’s perspective and understand their feelings, even if you do not always agree.
What is empathy
Refers to how a person uses their time. To have healthy time boundaries, a person must set aside enough time for each facet of their life such as work, relationships, and hobbies. Time boundaries are violated when another person demands too much of another’s time.
What is Time boundaries
Much worse than liking the pics of others, your partner is leaving comments! This indicates a lack of respect and boundaries in the relationship.
What is Flirty or Inappropriate Comments:
How should you respond if your partner or friends are spreading rumors about you at school?
Any answer is correct if answered appropriately :)
When someone tries to control your decisions, actions or emotions.
What is manipulation
You feel comfortable being yourself in the relationship.
What is self-confidence
Refers to thoughts and ideas. Healthy intellectual boundaries include respect for others’ ideas, and an awareness of appropriate discussion (should we talk about the weather, or politics?). Intellectual boundaries are violated when someone dismisses or belittles another person’s thoughts or ideas.
What is Intellectual Boundaries
If your partner is constantly monitoring your social media activity, it may suggest possessiveness or insecurity, which can be detrimental to a healthy relationship.
What is constant monitoring
What do you do if your partner/friend try to take priority over school work and your interests?
Any is correct as long as answered appropriately :)
When someone keeps you away from friends, family, or other people. This behavior often starts slowly with someone asking you to spend more 1:1 time with them but can later escalate to demands that you don’t see certain people.
What is isolation
You respect your partner’s boundaries. You feel safe physically, intellectually (expressing thoughts), and emotionally (expressing feelings).
What is safety
Refer to a person’s feelings. Healthy emotional boundaries include limitations on when to share, and when not to share, personal information. For example, gradually sharing personal information during the development of a relationship, as opposed to revealing everything to everyone
What is emotional boundaries
If your partner is deleting or hiding posts or tags that involve you, it could be a sign that they are hoping to hide aspects of your relationship and are not fully committed to the connection. The only time your partner should be hiding anything is if they are tagged in inappropriate content that they have no control over or that you’ve mentioned bothers you to some degree.
What is deleting or hiding post
What should you do if your partner/friend asks you for private photos?
Say no and place a firm boundaries. Talk to an adult and get help.
When someone is disloyal or acts in an intentionally dishonest way. They may act like a different person around other people or share private information about you to others. It also includes lying, purposely leaving you out, being two-faced, or cheating on you.
What is betrayal
You communicate your own needs and wishes, while respecting those of your partner.
What is effective communication
Refers to the emotional, intellectual, and physical aspects of sexuality. Healthy sexual boundaries involve mutual understanding and respect of limitations and desires between sexual partners. Sexual boundaries can be violated with unwanted sexual touch, pressure to engage in sexual acts, leering, or sexual comments.
What is sexual boundaries
Forcing your partner to delete posts and pictures of friends and past relationships.
What is social media manipulation
Tell one boundary you have in a relationship?
Any answer is correct as long as you answer :)